Would you choose night out with friends or spa session?

@mayrah (1144)
United States
November 22, 2010 1:27am CST
After a long days of busy work, treating yourself for a spa session would be a good way to relax. Body massage in a spa would help you relieve the tiredness you felt. It's sometimes good for the body to relieve stress. However, I just want to ask, what if your scheduled spa session for yourself was in conflict with the night out schedule of your friends. This is the only time all of you are free. They persuaded you to come with them. Which would you choose, a night out with your friends or spa session for yourself? Why?
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14 responses
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
22 Nov 10
Hi, After working for whole day in the office, I like to hang out with my friends at pub for a cup of drink. it is the best way to relax myself. Especially if the next day is my off-day ,then I will hang around till midnight. In my wholelife, I never been to spa yet and really wondering how it is. Maybe I don't have that luck yet. Hopefully one day I will have a chance to visit a spa to get myself relax too.
@mayrah (1144)
• United States
22 Nov 10
hope you find time to experience it, it's wonderful and very relaxing
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
In this case I would rather go out with my friends. As you said it is the only time that all are free. Today's lifestyle is too busy and it is really hard to find time to spend with your whole circle of friends. Spa is always there. I can always go there whenever I have free time.
@mayrah (1144)
• United States
22 Nov 10
Wow, it seems that yu treasure your friends bonding moment
@calajane (1003)
• Poland
22 Nov 10
While I have wonderful friends, I think that I wouldn't give up a luxurious spa treatment for a night out. A night out is something I can do almost every week, while going to a spa is a more rare experience. Plus, you have to admit those are two different relaxation techniques. Spa definitely quietens you down, makes you more relaxed and rested. WHile a night out with friends makes you relieve stress in a more active way, where you're quite exhausted at the end of it all
@mayrah (1144)
• United States
22 Nov 10
Yes you're right having a spa treatment would be a better way to relax mind and body
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
I'd choose night out with friends. I don't go to spa. Nothing beats drinking non-stop with friends. You can have too much fun with them but having a good ol' time for yourself in a spa is kinda limited. After you're done, you're done.
@mayrah (1144)
• United States
22 Nov 10
really, I love going t spa, try it, it's fun
@maiaman (97)
• Philippines
24 Nov 10
If this was asked when I was younger, I'd say NIGHT OUT in a flash. But now that I'm a bit older, I'd rather have a de-stressing, relaxing and calming spa session!
• United States
23 Nov 10
Me personally I would chose a night out with my friends. While time at the spa would be hard to pass up, for me the most relaxing thing I could do is laugh. My friends all love to laugh and love to make people laugh. If we have a friend who needs a good laugh we all come together and just have a night out of fun. To me if I am by myself, I tend to think too much about what I should be doing. If I am out having a good time with friends, I don't have time to worry about tomorrow.
@Boyetski (986)
• Philippines
23 Nov 10
It depends.. Sometimes if our body seek relaxation even if my friends ask us to go to a night out, I sometimes say Ill go later, I need to go to a massage parlor wahahaha.. Then if my body recovers ill follow.
@sjlskl (3382)
• Singapore
22 Nov 10
Why not ask your friends to join you in the spa. Wouldn't this is just the perfect settings? But if I am to choose, I would prefer to meet my friends. I can visit the spa anytime I want, but with such a busy schedule for everyone, it is difficult to find another time whereby all will be free for a get-a-long session.
@ansi09 (151)
• Tunisia
22 Nov 10
I don't know about you women, but for me, a night with my best friends is magical, haha, it ca't even comapred to what you call a spa, no offense women :D But, it's good to take advantage of your time, even if this means missing a night with your friends. Buttom line, if i have to choose between these two tempting offers, i'll choose a night with friends, spa, can wait,LOL.
@ergfortes (516)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
It would really be nice to treat myself for a relaxing body spa but i could always do that on my free time, so i'd rather go with my friends and hang out with them. It's not everyday that i see my friends and it would really be nice to chat with them and enjoy time. Maybe i could also invite them to join me in my spa session.
@tokwa99 (92)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
For me its time to unwind and enjoy with friends most of the time, but for a relaxing i need to go to massage for a relaxing time
@fl0rencia (414)
• Philippines
23 Nov 10
I would choose night out with the friends! In my case, it's difficult to get together with friends because we all jobs already, and not everyone always have a freetime. We have planned our first reunion after graduation 8months ago, but until now, the reunion wasn't been done. So if I am given the chance to have a night out with friends, I would surely grab it. Going to spa can be rescheduled and done in other days. :)
@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
22 Nov 10
Sleep over going out i like getting my sleep , specialy if i got to get early . But Friends over Spa , i'm not a spa person anyway :P
22 Nov 10
This is really depends on your own personal interests. Some of people like hanging out with friends for fun, some of them like staying alone quitely with music or books, and some of them like going to gym or spa for relaxation. It is difficult to say which is better. Personally i perfer go spa in stead of night out with friends for drink. It sounds too noisy for me, while spa let me feel much more relax and enjoyable!