i simply can't understand, said she misses m, but when i called she's busy...

Philippines
November 23, 2010 6:48am CST
How could i even figure out, said she misses me so much, but when I called, she can't talk to me because she's busy, I don't have unlimited load on my mobile to call every now and then haaaaay :( Can't figure it out. I don't know! Tsk tsk tsk! :( Girls could really get so complicated. what ya think? any aid there?
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@annein (128)
• Singapore
23 Nov 10
it doesn't mean that when you call her when she's busy, she didn't really miss you. try to understand her. maybe that time you call, she really caught up on something very important. try call her next time during her lunch break or before she go to bed. don't call during busy hours.
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• Philippines
24 Nov 10
Yeah maybe, but you know I called around 8pm that's beyond office hours. But she said she's still in the office. And well, I am still in the office, but I have the time to call. But she said, hey I really can't talk to you right now, call me some other time.... Anyway, I guess I have to be patient. Thank you for caring to reply. God bless you anne! :D
• Philippines
24 Nov 10
Yeah, she's still in the office. But the thing is I can't call her often. Because I am busy too... But now I'm okay, i'll just call some other time. and yes, I might as well ask for her schedules. :D thanks. :D God bless you!
• Philippines
24 Nov 10
You called her at 8:00 p.m. and she is still in the office? Well, she must really be busy that time. I mean, maybe she is rushing before a deadline. Anyways, I think you should ask her her schedule... You know... So that next time you call she is not busy and you two can talk... :D
@annawen86 (545)
• Indonesia
23 Nov 10
i think there are many different types of girl. i am the type that always care to my boyfriend. every time he message me or call me no matter how busy i am, i always reply the message and receive his phone. but there are a girl that loves her boyfriend but dont want to waste time for her boyfriend. it is depend on the type of the woman.
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• Philippines
24 Nov 10
Yeah maybe, I just got lucky to have a different kind of girlfriend, but when we love we have to be patient. So I guess, have to be patient. I just have the difficulty to understand her yesterday. Thanks for your responses I'm somehow relieved and enlightened.
• Pakistan
24 Nov 10
Some girls make fool and they cool.She says missing you. But you call, she do not like to response you. it means she enjoys it and laughs on you. You should tell her that I have no enough balance. She will avoid to tell you that she misses you. Many girls do not like the boys having no money in their pockets.
• Philippines
25 Nov 10
I'm a woman but I don't understand her too. If I'd be in her shoes and I miss someone so much, I can still spend even a little time during my busiest hours just to be able to talk to my man and listen to his voice. Then I'll say sweetly to him, "Dear I would love to talk to you more but I'm kinda busy right now. Can we talk later tonight before I go to bed? Or maybe while on my way home?" Based on your situation, I think the girl is just fooling around or she doesn't really mean when she say's she misses you but is too afraid to be frank to you what she truly feels. Sometimes we tend to say things and mean another because we don't want to hurt the guy's feelings. But at the same time, we don't have the heart to tell them we don't feel the same way and we're afraid to push them away. Why don't you try to ask her to be frank of you instead of letting you read between the lines and leaving you in the hanging around with many questions in mind?
• India
25 Nov 10
I agree with you here and If my i misses my man, and when he calls me up, I will make time for him and even if I am up to my neck with work, I am sure I will have time to ask him what it was that he is calling for. I think nay girl would say that if they misses their man... Check her out!!
• Philippines
30 Nov 10
Yeah I thought so, I thought to myself that "if she said she missed me, then maybe she means to say, check me out," But when I checked her out, she said she can't talk to me, she's busy. waaaaaaaaah.... she's really complicated... :D thanks though for the opinion mate. God bless you!
@nikramos (698)
• Philippines
25 Nov 10
dont think too much about it, maybe she's just plain busy. sometimes its better to drop her a line or two to tell her how your day is going and to tell her how much you miss her back because (maybe) taking a few minutes of phone call actually means a lot to her had she already managed her time as to what she's supposed to be doing for the day. but then again, its quite a wonder, she may be busy but she can just get back at you as soon as she's done with whatever is making her busy. maybe the best thing is just ask her what she's thinking but please try to avoid being a baby as it will only annoy her and add to her stress (if she actually is being busy lately). we can really be complicated.. and so can you guys.lol. goodluck!
• Philippines
30 Nov 10
Yeah, you could really get complicated at times, maybe because we are really different from each other I mean boys vs. girls. thanks though mate. :D
• Indonesia
23 Nov 10
Dear chuyins, you need to be patient. You don't understand girls, and maybe won't understand them. They don't have the same thinking like us, so just be patient waiting for her
• Philippines
24 Nov 10
yeah, I need more patience. I really can't understand her. Guess have to try my luck on patience. hahaha :D thanks man. God bless you!
• Philippines
24 Nov 10
Yeah... Well, it would really be hard for guys to understand girls just as it would be difficult for girls to understand guys... I think it's because girls and guys are completely different. In fact, sometimes, even the opposite... But love will always bind together even the most different people in the world, right?
• Philippines
24 Nov 10
Yeah, we're really just too different and maybe we don't need to understand at all times. We just have to love, and bear in mind that there is more to life than our differences. Thank you bannybanzie! God bless you!
@annein (128)
• Singapore
23 Nov 10
it doesn't mean that when you call her when she's busy, she didn't really miss you. try to understand her. maybe that time you call, she really caught up on something very important. try call her next time during her lunch break or before she go to bed. don't call during busy hours.