on and off relationship

November 28, 2010 1:10am CST
I think I am the most confused person in the world. It's weird that I am like having an on-off relationship with my partner, given that he's already my husband and that we live in the same house. I don't know who he is anymore, but I'm not really blaming him for everything that's happened. No issues of third party or whatever, just that we can't stay in the same room at the same time for more than couple of minutes...***sighs*** and I am uncertain if I still want it to be fixed. Sad part is we have a kid that sees our fights :((
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4 responses
@urbandekay (18278)
28 Nov 10
Swallow your pride, forgive and seek forgiveness, be reconciled all the best urban
28 Nov 10
thank you urban... yeah I'll give it a shot
28 Nov 10
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@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
28 Nov 10
Slight quarrel between husband and wife is quite normal, without that your relationship is dull. You must to fix such agony between you and your husband because it will affect your kids. Think the worst thing that possibly happen when your kids brought that situation in his/her maturity... Husband and wife should be having talk to each other, discuss all the matters quitely and peacefully, it should be given and take, be self control and think that you love him that's why you and him become family... I hope you can fix the matter early as posible... see you around
28 Nov 10
thanks... yes I loved him, but not sure if I still feel the same now. before, even if I get hurt, I still can't imagine losing him... but that thought is like bearable now
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
28 Nov 10
Every day is not the same in a relationship. We can through different moods and situations. We have to make the most of our times in those on relationship days. it will make up for how we feel on those off relationship days .
@ouch88 (32)
28 Nov 10
on and off relation really suck.. that's why you should find a permanent relationship or a stable one.. time is gold dude, don't waste you're time to a wrong person.
28 Nov 10
thanks, I'm just scared I might regret my decision... I'll give this little more time...whew