Love is complicated.

Philippines
November 29, 2010 5:05am CST
Most of relationship end up in a break up. We have so many things to think of but when we love someone it should not go out of love anymore. That is what love is. But why so many broken marriages and relationship where did all that love go?
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@hushi22 (4928)
29 Nov 10
love is complicated and that is the reason why it is really interesting and fun. it depends on the endurance and understanding pal. more and more people are being lenient and self centered these days so these things happen.
• United States
29 Nov 10
There are tons of reasons why relationships end. One of them is not meeting expectations. But the real problem is the society itself. It says that once you reach a certain age you have to be with someone. Otherwise, you will be frowned upon. Under such circumstances, people fear to stay alone or wait for the right person. They just go with anyone who offers them a relationship. In the end, they learn that they are not compatible with them. So they break up. Also for some, it is not the relationship that matters, but the numbers. I have actually met many people who like to say, "I have never been alone. So far I have been with 21 girls/boyfriend". It seems it gives them an ego boost because in number they find satisfaction. For such people, love is a term from a distant planet. Love means tolerance, support and above all making sure that the other person is always happy. It is not possible for all to understand it. The biggest enemy of love is ego which is taking over people's lives. They just think they are too good for the specific people and sometimes this ego just blinds them from seeing how their decision to kill the relationship will hurt the other person.
@munhozmib (3837)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
29 Nov 10
Hello, arreolabryan. Yes, love is complex and deep. It is something we all may feel at some time in our life, at different intensities. Makes us happy when we are around someone, make us feel like we are in the perfect place, at the perfect time, with the perfect person. However, why would many couples break up? I believe the answer may be pretty simple. Let's get a man on his 20's. Suppose he will live until 80 years. He has 60 years to live. When he find his love, he will enjoy it as much as he can. But something will happen if they don't take care about it, and they will start getting used to each other. It will lose that excitability that existed in the beginning. They will just be there, together, but that old caring for each other will disappear. They will say "I love you" due to costume, will start arguing more. Imagine on their 4th year, the man has 24 and he will live 56 years more! It is when a couple realizes they don't want to be together forever. They break up because some minor issue. You may realize that, it is a lot like this. But that is just MY opinion. People think love will do everything, but I say you have to learn how to care for it and make it grow. Respectfully, Munhozmib.