developing self-confidence

Philippines
December 2, 2010 9:20pm CST
first, let me ask you, do you have a sef-confidence? if yes, i guess you know how important on having a confidence in our daily lives. especially when we are socializing or interacting to other people who around us. i hope you are aware that not all confidence gives a good results to us. sometimes being very confident on some things leads us to do a mistake. by the way its very natural to us. because we are not all perfect. we are all imperfect. sometimes we became too perfectionist but overall all things we've done are not perfect. nw the question is, how to build a good confidence???
3 responses
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
i guess you don't have to be too tactless with what you say so your confidence in front of the crowd wouldn't leave a worse impression.. confidence is a great way to start off an attitude besides, confidence is needed anywhere else, especially when you go to work and meet different kinds of people along the way.. the very first thing that you must do in order to build your confidence is to face your fear if your fear is facing a huge crowd.. don't shy away.. just think of them as the same people you see at home,like your mom, your dad, your brothers, your sisters or your close friends..
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
ok thanks for your answer. i can say that what you answer is very intelligent. by the way thanks for your response.
@annavi23 (6302)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
yeah,i do agree with lady's answer. looks like she is very intelligent for having that knowledge as well. i do believe that facing your fears can help you establish confidence as well and makes it easier for you to socialize or interact with others. if you can't face your fears today,it will not make you better individual in the future. it will hinder you from being what you wanted to be as well. like what i have read before, learn to face your fears one time a day.
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
well i believe that self confidence is really important and much of it is really bad. but for me if i luck some of it i just pray and put my confidence to God and its really effective.
@Jacobus1919 (1684)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
To get some self confidence, is not a miracle to do but you can not do it over night as well. It takes time and patience to get. Start by opening up and doing some practices like instead of being too shy to talk in class during a report try to volunteer and see it from there.