**Can you make out if a guy loves you**??

@pupupd (1515)
India
December 4, 2010 12:15am CST
I do not understand the difference between "A guy likes you" and "A Guy loves you" What are the indications a girl should look out for to differentiate between the two? The question is directed to both the guys and gals. Please share your views in this
2 responses
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
28 May 11
This is very tricky. I suppose the real indicator is when he says it. This might not always be trusted though. It is more his actions than what he says..sometimes boys say things they don't really mean if there is a make out session involved. Just be careful..young love is tough. It might take a long time to really know.
@pupupd (1515)
• India
29 May 11
Yeah men and their actions.. very difficult to understand. Most of the times these guys are not serious, they will just play around. But meanwhile they do not realize that they are hurting someone's feelings in the process. Anyways, I like the fact that guys really mean it when they actually say it but as long as they do not say it for themselves we should not expect anything more out of them
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
If he likes you then he's just attracted to you and have a relationship with you, but that doesn't mean that he loves you. Love and like are two different things. Love is more than just an attraction, it's more than lust and more than just a libido. It involves a deeper emotion. And once a man tells you sincerely that he loves you, it means he wants to put the relationship in a higher level. It could lead to marriage then. So don't expect too much from a guy who just says he likes you.
@pupupd (1515)
• India
2 Jan 11
Okay. So according to you, a guy getting attracted to me and having a friendship with me does not mean he is falling in love with me. What if he always shares his personal things with just me and not anyone else? What if he just talks to me about small simple things, asks my opinion all the time? Even then you would say he just likes me? A girl doing the same with a boy will not mean just like, it will be more than just like for a girl