how to build a goal in our life?

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My GF have been with me for 3 years.now I have bought a house,and wwaiting for her to come to my city to get marriaged.but now there is a problem:My GF was afraid coming to my city,because she was afriad of losing work,she didn't know what kind of work she can do,now she was a assistant,but she didn't like it.she also didn't have a dream in the future,she was wottied about it?how can I do with it?