what will you do if your close friend betray you?

December 8, 2010 1:24am CST
there are some friend whom we called a TRAITOR. you tell him/her about your secrets and then she/he tell it also to others.
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7 responses
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
13 Dec 10
Telling secrets is not a big deal now days.. Suppose u are telling a secret to your friend and u restrict him not to tell others.. What happens, if he disclose it to his another friend and ask him not to tell others? This happens !! This is why it is advised not to tell secrets to your friends if it is gonna cost you more.. I don't mind my secrets being disclosed if it costs nothing !!
17 Dec 10
the best thing to do if we want to keep our secret really in secret. we should tell others nalang..
@joystick (1675)
12 Dec 10
This has happened to plenty of my friends in the past, thankfully never me though.The way they delt with it was to keep quiet and never say too much in front of the person or people that have betrayed them, also tell the partners that they are with the same and not to say alot to them either or to them in front of the person.
17 Dec 10
i agree with you..we should not tell everything to our friends...coz sometimes they cannot keep secrets...even myself i am like that sometimes...
• United States
9 Dec 10
I lost that kind of trust in people. I do not tell anyone my inner thoughts and feelings. So that says right there that yes I have been hurt and hurt hard by this. I can promise you this though, I would and will not break trust in those same people. I just can't, it is not right. I do not call them names, I don't hurt them, I just don't trust them anymore is all. I leave it at that.
17 Dec 10
it's really difficult if trust is already broken..it's difficult to fix it again...
• Philippines
19 Dec 10
i just have to move on and get over the friendship. i hate traitors esp. if the damage is done. like how could i keep you if you dont know how to set limits. i guess its much easier to set limits than to win a friends trust back that u offended.
@chuyins123 (2112)
• Philippines
9 Dec 10
Traitors aren't good friends. So just stop being friends with them. And if you may, tell him/her "frankly, i just don't trust you, that's why I don't want to be your friend anymore." I don't trust many people, there are only a few people in my life, that I know my secrets are safe. I could easily be befriended but hard to be real friends with, because I am personally a private person, and if someone knows my secret, then he/she must have earned my trust over a long time. :D
17 Dec 10
yes i agree with you TRAITORS are not a good friends.
• Philippines
8 Dec 10
Hello nathaniacherry! If I have that king of friend, I would really really feel bad about it however, I will be glad as well that I was able to see her true colors and will immediately cut my friendship with her, I cannot trust her anymore!
9 Dec 10
thank you for sharing your idea..God bless you,
@PDBME2 (1014)
• United States
8 Dec 10
I don't think I have any close friends lately that I can say have betrayed me. I try not to disclose too much or that in which I wouldn't want others to know.