My sister is inlove

every man is hard to understand other people. because many are suspicious of human attitude towards others, but must be quiet at some point the situation will change.

what she needs is your support and understanding. Since "it seems" the guy can not be trusted based on what you probably think, i guess you need to know and understand how your sister sees him as a person. Be happy for her if she is really in love, and just be there when she needs you.

Well, it's your sister, so you really need to let her and her boyfriend work things out for themselves. If your sister decides to trust this guy, than that's her. As a brother, you can let her make her own decisions.

hmmm....just be there for her and observe. i guess the time will come that you will know who is right about the person if he is trustworthy or not.

Seems like we can't do anything about it. My sister is in love with a married man and she got pregnant and is now happy being just a mistress. I hated that fact and tried to get her out of the situation but she was stubborn, and she's a smart doctor. The guy is just a scumbag who used to be a taxi driver, got married to a woman with money and he used it all up for gambling. Now, I did my best to break their relationship but I failed. So I think you can't do anything about your sister's situation.

the comments above are right...let your sister discover the truth for herself because if you try and interfere chances are that your sister would resent you, this happened to me but not with my sister but with my best friend...we've patched things up now but it did take a long time and she had a real hard time telling me I'm right and she's wrong...

Hi Venus, It is a tough job. I have faced this problem and to some extent I am still facing it. You cannot really interfere in her personal life. If you know some way by which you can prove to her that the boyfriend is not trust worthy then do it. Even if that breaks your sister's heart. Ultimately she will thank you for that. But, if you only just have a feeling that the boyfriend is not good and do not have any proof to it, then do not do anything. Let your sister decide for herself. How old is your sister?? From the picture that you have on your profile I take it that she is above 20...Maybe right now she is blindly in love, but soon she will get over it and if the boyfriend is not good, she is old enough to realise it all by herself.

hi simplyvenus! let's reverse the picture or the situation. i have been there, fell inlove and the world was against the both of you. until sometime, God was the one who made His way, for me to see the things that He already planned for me. i was madly inlove with my first boyfriend. my friends has their boyfriend and i was eager to have one too. then he came, i thought he was the one for me. my friends, sister and even my mother does not like him. its because, everytime he drove me in our house, he even not go inside our house and say hi. its out of respect with my mom. then, things gone bad, he cheated on me not just once but twice. i tried to save our relationship then, until one day i woke up feeling no love at all. but what i love with my family, they did not interfere in my decisions. the trust they had given me, i was so blessed. so i guess, the better thing you should do with regards to your sister is let her decide for herself. she may lose because of love, eventually she will also learned from it. life is a journey, everytime we fall we stand up and learned from it all. :)