My daughter My princess

@terryt52 (243)
United States
December 10, 2010 1:16pm CST
I was kinda just smiling to myself. My husband and I had the opportunity to adopt two siblings about 7 years ago. Both of them came with huge problems. The younger on who is seven is autistic. Mostly nonverbal out in public. She is extremely close to dad and he had been gone all week on business. Yesterday he came home and when I came in from work she came running to me and said Mom this is beautiful my dad came home. She just melts my heart as well as her sister. We adopted them from DCF and they were abused so every day I thank God for the gift. Every day they teach me something. dealing with autism and brain damage every day is an adventure. I sometimes wonder when the little autistic princess is babbling what exactly is she saying and what is going through her mind. I see that when someone writes in about autistic children there are not many responses. I love to get into discussions about autism after all it is a very intriguing subject and so much knowledge on it but yet so much more to learn how about you. What are your thoughts.
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
10 Dec 10
Thank God for people like you who are filled with love and compassion towards children. Adoption is difficult in every way but you have taken on challenges that would daunt most people. May you always be showered with blessings. God bless you and your husband.
@terryt52 (243)
• United States
10 Dec 10
I feel like god has blessed me and my husband. I do believe that God put them in our life for a reason. They have taught me so much and every day I learn something. Thank you so much for your kind response God Bless You
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
10 Dec 10
My son has autism. He can certainly be difficult, but he can also be really great. Bless you for adopting these girls. I am glad that they are with somebody who will care for them.
@terryt52 (243)
• United States
10 Dec 10
Yes there are days that are difficult. I do alot of research and try and always stay on top of education and treatment and any new information that would be of help, I am glad that you responded. Thank you so much
@mommaj (23112)
• United States
12 Dec 10
You are so right that autistic children are blessings and teach everyone so much. I love children. They are all blessings and they are all unique. My son,5, has classic autism, the most severe on the spectrum and my daughter is starting to show signs of aspergers syndrome. The psychologist diagnosed her with ADD. She is extremely high functioning, even in the gifted and talented program. It just goes to show, everyone has some type of "affliction" and it depends on how you cope with it as to what you achieve. Both of my children are extremely comical. My son learned it from his sister, but they both do slapstick of falling down, getting hurt, and just plain silliness. You never know what my son is thinking because he is still non-verbal, but you can certainly see the humor come into his face and you always know when he is up to something. The other day I was at the school and he hugged one of his teachers after they were through playing and the other teacher asked for a hug and he walked away. She said that was okay because that's just the way our kids are. I could see he was messing with her because he had a smirk on his face. But, not five minutes later, he came back and hugged her. They are so funny. Most of the time they don't offer affection, so you have to take it when you can. You are right that there are not many discussions about autism. I try to read them all though. You never know when someone might have a suggestion you didn't think of.