what would you think if your lover left u then suddenly came back?

This thing often happened to ladies, left hanging. Anyway, it depends on how you accept the situation and how you love your partner. But, for me if he already made his decision then i let him go but i won't accept his lame excuse for leaving me. When the time comes he realize he's mistakes in leaving me I'll be there for him not as a friend nor a girlfriend but a person who is new and who already moved on. I'll let him feel sorry for being selfish and inconsiderate.

I have been in that situation.It's really hurts when he just left you and all of sudden he just appeared and wanting of you to be back.For me,I know he didn't love me enough because he just can ignore me.And his feeling for me is just swallow and not "love". He's making me his pastime , and like a toy when he want to play ,he and when he get bored,he can easily replace or throw me.He just taking advantages my love for me,because he knows how much I love him and he just easily make me believe he cared and loved me.And here I am, being so blind and martyr.To believe in all his lies. Simply, I know it's easy to say but hard to do.This is the fact, If the man really loves you,you will see and feel it.Not just in you,but also he will showed it in all your friends and family.He will give his attention,time,sacrifices and effort just for you.

I would hope that if my lover came back to me it was because they had realized it was a mistake to leave in the first place. if my lover only came bsck because his greener pasture wasn't so green, i would be insulted. I wouldn't want my lover back because they just didn't want to be alone. I would rather be alone with my pain than to live like that.

Hmmmm that kind of lover is a person who I would not trust for a second time. If he ever said to me that he was bored with me and his feeling was changed then I guess he could not find things about myself to appreciate about and he does not know what I was exactly to him. So once I let him go, I will learn to move on and live my life without him coming back and do it again for the second time. So if I was in your situation then I would not accept him back, because there's a big chance that he will gets bored and leave again as if I do not have any feeling when he do things the way that only makes himself happy and benefit him. Have a nice day

I have been around and I am older. To tell you honestly I would think there is something wrong with them not me. I have experienced this and seen it in other couples. The truth is they just want to sleep around. They have no one else to blame but their partner when in reality they just want to sleep around. If you would have asked me this in my 20's or 30's I would be emotional about it but not now.

ive been in this situation before, and what i did was to go on with my life.. i have survived when he was not around, and his presence would only mean another chance for him to hurt me..

Hi, For sure, I won't accept this man as my boyfriend again. SInce he left me in the first place, there is no point for us to patch back again. i have been going through the heart pain since he left me and now, I am strong enough to start again my new life and I do hope that his coming back won't disturb my current life. I will talk to him nicely that our past relationship is over and please stay away from me. I have my own life to carry on and just hope he can find the right woman for his own life.

First of all i would not believe such a girl at all. First she left me because shes bored or maybe she found someone else better. Next time she comes and says that she wants to be back with us? That really makes my day doesn't it? I would at most just be friends with my girl and nothing more. I wouldn't be surprised if she didn't come back to me. I would like to stay as her friend and nothing more than that. It would only complicate any relationship between us into a further complicated stage. Cheers!

he has the gall to return after leaving you broken and shattered??? For me, no way! I believe in making a relationship work but not in taking back someone who already left you...if the feeling is gone, it's gone!!! if got bored with you, then he'll get bored again because I your the same old you...chances are that you've already healed a bit and taking that person back would expose you to another chance of heartache...