Someone to understand me....

i agree that sometimes there would be a day that you need someone that you could speak with. someone who would just listen to everything that you would like to say.. sad to say i had never found someone who would be like that for me..

You could always talk to a counsellor. In my experience, I've found that counsellors can be of great assistance - they listen attentively and offer advice to get you through. If you're at school or college, counselling services should be available. It sounds like you're looking for a companion who will love and listen to you in your times of hardship. As you may not find him/her immediately, I think talking to a psychologist or counsellor is your best option.

I'm very much like you in the sense that I find it hard to find people who can understand me, but I think I'm managing just fine. Part of it is knowing yourself fully. In my case I've come to know and embrace myself after realizing that I'm really much different in the way I think and behave from most common people. I don't blend in well, but that's not to say people dislike me because they don't, and even if they don't necessarily like me either, what they have for me is respect. And you only get that if it starts within you and of course you have to respect others too. So once I learned that, it wasn't so hard for me to accept anymore why I couldn't find people who would understand me and what I did is try to understand others instead. Of course there are still times that I really really do want and need to talk to someone, and there are some people on my mind to talk to and maybe one day I would try and reach out to them. I'm not saying the same case would apply to you that you just have to accept it, because it could be VERY different from what you're going through, although I said earlier that we're very much alike in that sense. But I'm sure the first part would apply to you as well. Just find out more about yourself and learn to embrace who you are and you should know afterwards where to lead yourself.

I hope you will find somebody you can trust and whom you will feel comfortable with sharing your deepest fears and dreams etc. I am very fortunate that I have lots of childhood and college friends whom I can talk to anytime. I never ran out of persons to talk to whenever I need a listening ear. Some of my friends I cannot trust with my deepest secrets but I have at least 3 whom I know i can trust with anything and whom I know will forever be loyal and faithful to me. I in return always try to be the best friend I can be to all my friends. Someone whom they can trust with anything and who will stand by them through thick and thin because I know how important that kind of friend is to anybody. May you find the kind of friend you are looking for sooooon! :o)

Whenever I feel like talking to somebody because I feel bad or sad, I don't talk to anybody since I'm a guy who wants to look strong in front of everyone. :P

Everyone should have feel lonely,may be in when you're in trouble,may be in your sick afflictive,may be in your studies frustated,may be in you face a difficult choice,usually at this time everybody hopes that a man can let us talk,let's nagging several,or can comfort us a few words,I hope to have around such person,but such people in life really isn't so much!

hello, i had one and only one person who i can trust too and he is no other than my husband. Even we have something not in common mostly we have arguments to some matter that we always discuss he always listen to me and all my bitterness in life he is a good listener. I can trust him he can be a friend a husband and anything you want to do with him. I really like him. As of today, it was hard to trust to somebody mostly they are not understand what we said. they are hardly to understand what is secret. And if we got this kind of person for sure ....just think what id next. But no all people are not trusted there are some...

There's nothing that I appreciate more than having someone i can talk to when things are not going great for me. Just having someone to confide in and listen to my troubles is a comfort. The closer this person is to me the better they can understand me.

Well this is also happening tome. well I dont have friends. To be honest, if would like to count on normal friends, then yes I definitely have. if want to count on real friends, then that is none. One of the reason is because I am holding a high post at work and people are targetting to be friends with me just for their interest. Well, friends are hard to find. Good friends are even harder!

if friend,family are not around,you may go to church and talk to priest or pray to GOD.Me,i do talk anyproblem i have to GOD cause he is always there whenever or whatever you need.