Elderly

@clovy2 (31)
Philippines
December 13, 2010 3:09am CST
They grew old but they don't know what they're doing. Is it right for a woman to always scold his husband when the later does something wrong or woke up late in the morning. I feel sad for this man, because everytime he makes mistake his wife nags at him.
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@jenzai (390)
• Philippines
13 Dec 10
It's difficult to say if it's right or wrong. maybe on the part of the woman it was her way of showing her love or maybe she is just so tired with taking care of his husband. but definitely nagging is a not good at all. So i hope that woman will somehow change her ways.lol.
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• Malaysia
13 Dec 10
Hi, I think you shouldn't feel sad for the man because who knows maybe he enjoys his wife's nagging after all. There are many ways a couple can communicate, and nagging can be one of them. It doesn't mean that the wife does not love her husband anymore, but if you have been together for so long with someone and he keeps doing stuffs that you hate, it gets you on your nerves. I think the woman is being tolerant enough because he only nags. It is normal for couples to do that. If the man doesn't like it in the first place for sure he would have spoken up about it in the first place. So no worries, and have a nice day!
@megamatt (14333)
• United States
13 Dec 10
The sad thing is, we know these people are old. That they have their quirks and they might be losing their sense on the world. They are not young as they used to be. However, just because we understand, does not mean that there are times where their quirks annoy us. My grandparents, bless them, I love them, but there are certain things that they do that can and will get on my nerves. I know they cannot help it but it is still annoying none the less. Of course, it would be something that I would have less tolerance for with a younger person. Things do happen and the elderly still does have the benefit of life experience. Of course, I don't think nagging someone is a part of being old. Its just a part of being married. Whether you're newly weds or married for fifty, sixty years. Trust me, I've seen this across the board with married people of all ages. It is something that would have been done in their twenties, as much as their eighties. Old habits die hard after all.
@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
13 Dec 10
hello, Maybe the wife nags because she wants some help,so she wants her husband to wake up as early as she could. Sometimes elderly people becomes hot tempered,easily lose their temper and irritable. but there are people who becomes more soft when they gets old, the older they are,the more they mellowed. Every individual has it's own attitude and behavior,we can not compare each from one another. I hope the husband is patient enough to understand his wife Welcome to mylot and enjoy mylotting. Have a great day always