Are you guys still befriend with your ex?
By vrianna
@vrianna (185)
Philippines
December 13, 2010 3:41am CST
I have some of my ex boyfriends want to befriend to me. However, it doesn't mean that you will do the same like you still in a relationship. Sometimes there is a jealous between you and to his new relationship. Do you give up your friendship with your ex?
6 responses
@yumcookie (146)
• United States
13 Dec 10
If its the ex with the jealously problem say good bye to him, there is a reason why he is your ex. If its the new guy its your choice on what you want to do but you never know what you could be missing out on. On the other hand talk to your ex, he might be a good friend and point out something you fail to see in this new guy.
@joedollarhuat (580)
• Philippines
13 Dec 10
Greetings
I honestly would say it all depends on the reason we broke up. If it was misunderstanding, I wouldn't mind. If it were jealousy, I wouldn't mind either. However, it was due to cheating and other explicit reasons, I would mind. In fact, I currently have an ex-girlfriend whom I am friends with right now and I have accepted the fact that I am not getting back with her and our relationship will stay nothing more than friends.
Have a nice day :)
@kylemayeth (46)
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13 Dec 10
I always think of my ex as my friend.Whenever we met in other places we exchanges hi and Hello. I still treasure them because they help me in a lot of terms. They teach me to love and to be hurt... No matter what they did to me i still befriend to them. That's the way i could send them a messages that i am okey.And i accept the fact that we are not for each other. And i am happy of what i am right now.
@livecenter (1136)
• Malaysia
13 Dec 10
As for me, I will continue to befriend my ex...And still, I will also treat her as nice as I treated all my other friends...Nevertheless, somehow the feelings might come back, but it is up to us on how to control it...My advice, let bygone be bygone...^__^
@luvnidandan (131)
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13 Dec 10
I am still friends with my ex, and my current bf knows that. We were buds before we became a couple anyway, and we were probably too young when we first entered into a relationship. No bitterness, and it has been 8 years since the breakup. Ex is in my FB (since we went to the same small high school and had the same circle of friends). I am happy with my current relationship, and he gets a little jealous at times, which I find really cute. I get jealous as well, but I never scold my bf. As a whole, we just laugh about things in the past (current and I) as we always joke and tease each other about it.
