how people end up their life so easy?

@jornz87 (139)
Philippines
December 17, 2010 12:18am CST
a month ago i read from the post in the facebook account of my friend that "again!there 's someone commit suicide in our beloved alma matter.a graduating student". in the latter part of their conversation there is a link that redirecting to that person who committed suicide and when i check it we have common friend. a very close friend of mine. then i ask him "is he your?", his answered is "yeah, we're very closed friend since primary school. i was so shock. "oh my! so sorry." he said, "yeah!i was so pitiful for him, he is the only son.he has no brother/sister" as our conversation goes on, i found out the reason why he commit suicide was because they broke up with his girlfriend. his girlfriend since secondary. after two days he was buried in the private lot of their family,we all know that the person who commit suicide is not being entered into the church but that was the first time i heard that it is not allowed to buried in the public cemetery. without doubt his girlfriend came to his burial. she did not even shame to came in that burial to fact that all the people in that place has anger feelings to her. she acts like she did not do anything wrong. how could she act like she's not even one of the reason why her ex-boyfriend was gone? how could that certain person end his life for that girl? how pitiful life he has.
6 responses
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
Oh my!... I do agree that its really painful when someone left you after a long yrs of being together. I had my experiences about it but its not a valid reason for me to end a life. Maybe because he is a boy and as we know boys are egoistic and never dare to let their feelings out. Maybe its really that painful for him that he could not take it anymore. I bet its a really big conscience to the girl. Hopefully he`d be in heaven. God Bless his spirit!
@jornz87 (139)
• Philippines
18 Dec 10
yeah...i hope she had that kind of conscience coz my friend and their friends did not felt even a bit of guilt from that girl.
@jasmeena (846)
• Indonesia
18 Dec 10
How could he end his life just because of a girl?He is still too young to die, how old is he?and how`s his family now?
• Singapore
17 Dec 10
That's indeed sad. The girl may think that she has done nothing wrong but she has to try to understand what her ex's family's feelings too.
• United States
17 Dec 10
Perhaps he had other issues and this truly overtook his thinking... I am sorry to hear about anyone who ends their life for any reason as they must truly be battling with a never ending emotional battle. Hopefully the girl can understand his emotional state and perhaps accept that at least being a bit more sensitive is called for.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
hi, i think it because they want to run and escape their problem, and their mind couldn't think properly, and the answer they know is to finish their life. i always heard this kind of situation, but most of the time is cause of broken heart.
• Indonesia
18 Dec 10
we do not know what is in her heart, maybe she really feel guilty but she is not an emotional person so we cant just look it from her appearance. and i think there are never would be enough reason for us to end our live by our self. that is really a wrong way to choose. even though we lost all our beloved people we do not have the rights ti end our live.