How do you feel when someone hugs you.

@SHAMRACK (8576)
India
December 17, 2010 1:03am CST
I do like to get hugged especially from those whom I love. But I feel uncomfortable and irritating if some others whom I do not like hugs me. I avoid their greetings along with hugs. May be it also depends as a part of customs and greetings.
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9 responses
• India
17 Dec 10
i feel very secured and i feel there are no more worries in my life
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
17 Dec 10
If known this most people would like to do this.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
21 Dec 10
Especially those who like to get hugged........
• India
17 Dec 10
ya let us make everyone know about it
@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
19 Apr 11
I love hugs and they are usually quite comforting as long as someone I am not comfortable with doesnt hug me..which in this case would be my creepy cousin who for some odd reason likes me...
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
19 Apr 11
May be next time hope it would be avoided.
@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
23 Apr 11
i try but some people just hug you regardless if you want to be hugged or not.its horrid.
• India
21 Dec 10
a hug is somethin so special that when done by the right person will really give you so much of positive energy that all your worries will vanish and your heart will jump with joy. you feel secure when ur hugged and also its a sign of consolation. infact people celebrate free huggin day where they go around givin people whom they dont know also a hug. this may seem awkward but the real truth is giving a hug makes you happy and when your happy worries dont get their space in ur heart.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
24 Dec 10
If it is done by right person it is really special and precious.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
20 Dec 10
I was not used to being hugged, but ever since I worked together with American colleagues in the same office, I have been used to it though it is not always. Hug is a good way to connect people though it is not our culture. Take care, shamrack.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
21 Dec 10
Thank you Williamjisir.Yes culture is something we should give respect to if it do not hurt.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
28 Feb 11
Hi. SHAMRACK. If I miss and love this person, I will feel very happy to hug them. If it is someone that I don't really know, I will feel awkward. It is nice to get a hug at times.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
1 Mar 11
Especially someone whom we love most.
• Ecuador
17 Dec 10
I hate being hugged by people who I don't really love, I mean, there are some people that may love you, but you don't love them as they do, but they may not know that, so they hug you, and is in that times, that I feel like I'm being hypocrite. I don't feel nothing when hugging a person I don't love.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
20 Dec 10
Hugging with loved one are really something special, those we hate, we hate to hugs too.
@nophie (2336)
• Indonesia
17 Dec 10
i do like too if someone hugs me, especially my husband. because it make me feel loved. i don't want to hug by others. only my family.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
17 Dec 10
Some one we love especially our spouse hugs it gives much more ingredients to that relationship.
• China
17 Dec 10
I really feel good when someone hugs me.Especially when someone hugs me with loves not only for formality or for custom. I also love to hug my favorite person or whom i love. But i don't like to hug whom i don't like.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
17 Dec 10
Yes, getting hugged is another enjoyable one for those who love it most.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
17 Dec 10
Hi dear, Hugs! I rarely get it. I know who has done it before also. There is an old person who is just like my grandfather. I rarely only meet him. But if I get a chance to meet any where, he used to give a hug and give a kiss on my forehead. Whatever it is, I feel so comfortable and relaxed. Only one issue is that he is having hearing problem and we need to speak little loudly. He is really lovable person and I respect him very much. As you said, in certain families, such custom is there especially, some family occasions and religious functions. However, I rarely get hugs, and I never feel my love expressing hugs to anybody, which I don’t do with anyone. Thank-s
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
17 Dec 10
At times it gives us much relaxation.