How to deal with insensitivities?

@chiyosan (29389)
Philippines
December 17, 2010 11:46pm CST
So... when you have to deal with your insecurity and your partner's being insensitive about your feelings... how do you deal with this? What would you think would help you forget there is an issue that you need to settle? how do you think you should face him to get the message across? Hayy its just soo hard to be in a relationship... ;(
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@thesids (22455)
• Bhubaneswar, India
18 Dec 10
Yes, there are tough times and I feel that these are the tests that we have to pass out with flying colors when we are in any relationship. I feel that when two different persons are together, we have to respect the individuality. Let go of the Ego and have an open discussion with your partner to lessen out the pain and for me this works good on most occasions. It is difficult to be in a relationship just because we start taking things for granted and that complicates the matters. Let go off this and the relations are easiest to handle... that is my experience. Cheers, theSids.
@maean_19 (4663)
• Philippines
18 Dec 10
I am the type of person who really wants to have a seat and talk it out. I cannot sleep without solving any issue of the day. Open communication about issues helps and being understanding and open minded. Aside from that, you should know how to listen and allow your partner to talk. Never argue, just talk it out.