What are your views about an abusive relationship?

I think abusive relationships in any form be in physical, mental or emotional are dangerous and should never be brushed aside. If a person finds themselves in an abusive relationship they need to get out as soon as possible and seek help. Too many people try and convince themselves it will end and we have seen the end result is not a positive one all too many times. Also children growing up watching their parents abuse each other etc tend to suffer in the long run in many forms. Say no to abuse in any form!

Abusive relationship, can not be called a relationship. Because the connection is established not by hurting each other. If you hurt each other, is a feud.

Living in an abusive re;ationship is not a happy existence for anyone. Nobody should be made to feel like a victim. You should do what you can to keep yourself out of an abusive relationship. it is the best thing you can do for your life.

Well if that is the view of other people that it is showing their love if being abuse then this is kinda ridiculous and sounds insane. If a person does not respect his/her own dignity then no wonder that abusive relationship can be really tolerable on his/her part. Why should I involved myself into that kind of situation whereas I know it to myself that I value my dignity in the first place? Why should I settle myself to a man that wouldn't love me or even respect me?

I have been in a relationship where i have been bullied. It is awful but your self esteme shrinks to nothing. I was told i was ugly and worthless and no-one else would want me and put down at every chance. Iam not a submissive person in normal day to day life so i didnt think i would ever end up in a situation like that. And when i did i think it took me so long to realise what was happening cause i was in denial. It got to the point where it got physical. i had my house smashed, up, i was slapped and locked in the house. he chased away most my male friends cause he was paranoid. Then i got pregnant and everything got even worse. It wasnt till i moved back closer to my family that it ended. My cousin was the main person that helped me get away. I ended up having a full on fight with my partner and my neighbour rang my cousing who came up and chased him away.At this point our soon was 7 month old, luckily he was stayin at my mams that weekend. but i have to say I was more concerned about the way it would affect my son than what was happening to me. If it wasnt for him i could quite possibly still be with that lad now. I was lucky, there are thousands of men,women and children who are stuck in abusive relationships and may never get away. Its almost impossible to tell that its happening with most of them as they hide it out of fear of there partner.

i was in abusive relationship. i was spending lot of time with my guy but he cheated me. now i'll never go for that relation anymore it hurts a lot when someone don't recognize our love......

Being in an abusive relationship is wrong wherever you put it. You're right, if you find yourself in one, never think twice and just get out of it.