When the restaurant gets your order incorrectly, do you say something?

United States
December 19, 2010 10:31pm CST
Today, my boyfriend and I went to go eat at a Mexican restaurant, we are a frequent customer there however today, we ordered food and for my boyfriend's they forgot to include the sour cream. I went to ask for sour cream not for them to redo the meal just to give me sour cream and the lady told the cook and the cook was pissed off. The cook was like cussing in Spanish and looking at me like with an attitude. I was so pissed, my boyfriend wanted to start something but I was like whatever, don't- not worth it. We just won't go here again. How rude. Ever have your order wrong, do you say something or ignore it?
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@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
20 Dec 10
Hi, I have never been in such a situation. It sounds horrible and totally unprofessional. You did the right thing, however. It just wasn't worth it. A few years ago, I had gone to this Pizza shop. We order a low priced medium sized pizza and a few minutes later, the waiter came up with a very high priced large pizza with special topping and cheese. When he understood the mistake, the manager of the shop came down to our table and asked us to enjoy that pizza and pay for the one we had ordered. It was a very lucky day for us and the Pizza was fantastic.
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@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
20 Dec 10
That is sweet. Girls tend to get a lot of discounts... My sister is one of them. I do not know how she manages discounts in the most unlikely places.
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• United States
20 Dec 10
Lol, girls are more lucky I suppose :P haha.
• United States
20 Dec 10
Yup, I think we handled it fine because they weren't worth it. That is very lucky that you guys got bonus'. I have gotten that too before. I went to a pizza store and bought a pizza, side breadsticks and got the breadsticks for free and a discount on the pizza just because the cashier was nice LOL & other times too :)
• India
20 Dec 10
i have never got in to this kind of situation but if i get in ti this kind of situation i would ignore it because the situation get worst when we start arguing.
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• United States
20 Dec 10
Yeah, but we didn't argue just asked for sour cream cause they forgot it but they made it seem like a big deal (the cook).. when it was there fault cause it comes with sour cream in the carne asada fries supreme.
• India
20 Dec 10
i know my friends have experience this kind of situation and their day was spoiled. so, when you go out with your guy you would like to be happy i guess you both have got upset.
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• United States
20 Dec 10
Yes, then we went shopping afterwards and had a fun time together so it was fine.
@TeamCholent (2832)
• United States
20 Dec 10
That is a bit extreme and the cook in no way has any right to feel ashamed or angry as you never insulted the food but asked for something on the side that is not made there. I would have walked out the restaurant but thats just me and not being allowed to have any bully or abuse. If the cook keeps that up the restaurant is going to suffer and lose its loyal customers.
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• United States
20 Dec 10
I know but I couldn't understand him so I just ignored and will never return! I was quite furious but the store/people weren't worth it to say anything because it's just a waste.
@llbo1981 (1237)
• China
20 Dec 10
If i meet that situation,i think that i will say something about the servant of the restaurant.The wrong order is not suitable for me,i don't like the dishes which is not suitable for me
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• United States
20 Dec 10
Same, I agree. I am very picky however my boyfriend isn't so picky but the sour cream is supposed to come with the meal so it wasn't our fault!
• Philippines
20 Dec 10
so far, i cant remember any that me and my boyfriend had encounter this kind of situation. but if this would be happened to us, better to talk with the server that something in our other they had missed. saying it nicely would not lead you in a negative circumstances. and if the server, make face or made you mad, much better to talk with the manager of the restaurant. although, we are not being rude, but since we came there to be satisfied, so its their responsible to make us satisfied and we pay for what we eat and the service they give to us. :)
• United States
20 Dec 10
Thanks for sharing. I was being polite just asked for a side of sour cream cause that's supposed to be in the item but they forgot but they were very rude in return.
20 Dec 10
If the restaurant gets something wrong I usually say something, but I try no to make them feel bad. Like in your situation I might have said, 'oh, I forgot to ask for sour cream.' If I order a meal with a specific change, no beans or something, and they make a mistake then I will say something. But I usually try to make it so that they don't feel bad.
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• United States
20 Dec 10
I didn't make him feel bad, just oh you forgot the sour cream can I have it on the side dish instead and the cook was cussing in Spanish technically as if I told him to remake something. I didn't even bring the plate to them just asked politely thats what made my boyfriend made. It wasn't like we shoved the food back..
• United States
21 Dec 10
I took Spanish 1-2,3-4,5-6 for 3 years and I don't remember much but I could understand some and he was directing at me and looking at me.. And, seriously over a sour cream that's stupid & I am never coming back there :)
21 Dec 10
That is completely ridiculous then on the part of the restuarant. Although, do you understand Spanish? Perhaps the cook was mad at the waiter? If that's not the case and they got so upset over some sour cream that they forgot then that's a place I would say you should no longer go to. Sorry you had such a abad experience!
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• United States
20 Dec 10
You know, I totally don't say anything. Because, I worked in a restaurant before, and I have seen what people do "behind the scenes" and I get scared that they will do something to my food too. The other day, I was at IHOP, and my hashbrowns were so gross, because they had this "meaty" flavor, like they cooked them over the side of the grill that was for the meat, and not the potatoes (I was going to gag). But, I just said a prayer and ate. :( On the other hand, usually when I go out with my family (back home), they always speak up, and don't let their food come out awful. I don't know if that is a good thing, but sometimes, I wish that I would speak up, because I always leave a decent tip.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
21 Dec 10
weird! you didn't ask for them to re-do the meal and yet they cussed at you I would leave the restaurant immediately and not paying let them eat that re-done meal I have a business too, and sometimes I do things they didn't ask just as extra, but I never got angry at customers if it's my own doing what the he ck
@silentwill (1685)
• Philippines
20 Dec 10
I guess it depends on my mood and on how different my order was from the one served. This just happened to me this morning. We went to Burger King and I ordered a pizza flavored pair of small burgers, but instead got the barbeque flavor. I didn't bother saying anything. But when we were in Hong Kong we were served a totally different meal than we ordered and it wasn't just a case of language barrier because we noticed that the waitress wasn't really paying attention when we were ordering and pointing to the menu list what we want to order.
• United States
20 Dec 10
I see. That is totally different pizza & barbecue flavor. I guess if I w was craving for pizza then I would make a deal if not then I wouldn't bother but I am a person who doesn't like trying new things so it'd be okay for my boyfriend but not me. The meal we ordered or well my bf ordered was supposed to have sour cream so it's expected.. But yeah, I agree it depends on mood too.
• Philippines
20 Dec 10
Well the difference is only the flavor, what comes with it, fries, soda, and the price is the same. And in this case the pizza flavor is the new one, because I have tried the b-b-q flavor before and liked it. But in the case of the meal we were served in Hong Kong, what we ordered was some kind of rice with meat toppings in tomato sauce, (I don't remember what it's called) but instead we were given some kind of soup dish.
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• Philippines
20 Dec 10
Mmmm sour cream and fries... My mouth is starting to water :) I don't know why the cook started yelling because of something as trivial as that. Maybe a miscommunication?
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• Philippines
20 Dec 10
Whenever they got my order wrong, i just tell them that they had it wrong. It's wrong if they're gonna get angry at you cuz they're the ones who messed up in the first place, let alone highlighting the saying 'the customer is always right'.
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• United States
20 Dec 10
I know, I wasn't asking for a refund, just a side of sour cream and they were quite rude. The sour cream came with the item not like I added it or anything.
• United States
20 Dec 10
I will not ignore it as if I ordered it a certain way I expect it to come that way. I do not understand why they get upset as it was asked for correctly. I kindly explain that my order is wrong and if they get upset I do like you and never return. Thankfully I have had no problems in getting my orders recorrected.
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• United States
20 Dec 10
My boyfriend ordered it the originally way and they got their own menu wrong and forgot to include the item.. I wasn't asking them to remake the food just give me a side of sour cream and the cook was shouting loudly in Spanish... and made an angry face and my boyfriend got mad but I said its not worth wasting our time arguing just not return anymore! LOL :)
• Philippines
21 Dec 10
Just be assertive in what you do, people sometimes do makes mistakes, so we are. What is important is that you've been served well, and that they rectified their mistakes.
• Philippines
22 Dec 10
we'll it happened to me couple of times or something. i just told the waiter nicely in a non-provocative manner. he he he. nobody's perfect you know. i'm a very understanding person. he he he.
@GardenGerty (157551)
• United States
20 Dec 10
In that situation I would just ask the wait person for some sour cream. In many restaurants they are responsible for the garnishes like that for the plate. Maybe he was mad at the waiter for forgetting and was swearing at him. I do not think it should have been such a big deal People forget things and it is not a very big deal to just go get some sour cream, or sugar for the tea, or for hot sauce. It sounds like it got blown out of proportion. If you like the food and go there regularly, I would go back at least one more time to see if it is better next time.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
20 Dec 10
If it isn't a huge mistake, i might be willing to let it pass. My late husband was not as generous. If there was anything wrong with his restaurant order, he would say something until he was happy. He didn't care if he had to send his meal back three or four times. If his meal was not what he wanted, he was not afraid to voice his opinion.
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
21 Dec 10
Of course, I say something. I would probably look for the manager and make a report if the cook gives me that look. That restaurant is obviously giving poor service to its customers. Management should be told to improve everything. Not saying anything will only make matters worst.
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
21 Dec 10
Well at the end of the day, whether the order was wrong or right, we still have to pay for it. So if my order was wrong then I would definitely be honest about it to the staff. There was one time that I ordered my favourite food but I was served something else. Far different than what I ordered, I was thinking it was probably for another table who knows. So I told the staff that it was a wrong one and I'm not going to pay for what I did not order. So they took the food back to the kitchen and I got the right one after that. Thanks for sharing and have a nice day
@asyria51 (2861)
• United States
20 Dec 10
It depends on what they mess up. if it is something small and I will still eat it, I do not bother. If it is something big, like the completely wrong meal then I speak up. i know how crazy serving can be.
• Philippines
20 Dec 10
"The customer is always right. " You have the right to complain because I believe the dish that you order has to have sour cream and without it, it wouldnt be the same am I right? They dont have the right to do things like that because you are the customer. If I wear you, I'll go straight to them and ask them what they are saying and defend myself! Or better else I'll leave because the thing that they have served is not what Im asking for! People do that and we have experienced doing that a lot of times!