I encounter a difficult problem

China
December 20, 2010 5:49am CST
I am very confused,for I meet a hard problem.I do not know how to solve it.Why I am so stupid?
3 people like this
11 responses
@gjax57 (897)
• United States
20 Dec 10
doesn't mean your stupid, just means it's to hard to solve and we cant solve everything even some of the smartest among us!
• China
21 Dec 10
Thank you!
@gjax57 (897)
• United States
21 Dec 10
your so welcome :)
@calpro (933)
• India
20 Dec 10
Hi, There is no problem without a solution. I understand when we are in problems we go panic. Just calm yourself and relax. Try to think of your problem and its effects on your life. I am sure your problem is a not a life risk problem. In that case just buy some time to solve the problem. Problem's life span is smaller than our own life time. That is the reason we solve and face several problems in life time. Just remind yourself that you had tackled and solved many problems in your life prior to this. Try to find out the root cause and possible solutions and you are through. Good Luck and Happy Living Calpro
• China
21 Dec 10
Thank you!You words is full of philosophy.
@calpro (933)
• India
21 Dec 10
You are welcome. Regards Calpro
@asliah (11149)
• Philippines
20 Dec 10
hi, maybe you still cant decide as of now, it because you are still confused, try to relax, go in a peaceful place, and when your mind is now ready to analyze the problem, you can now think the possible answer of it.
• China
20 Dec 10
Thank you!I will try as you say.
• India
20 Dec 10
Thanks...for your advice it is need of me.....yup!!!
@msdivkar (1903)
• India
20 Dec 10
Hi koaebryant, My sympathies with you. I can understand how you must be feeling because every one of us, sometimes or other, make some mistakes and suffer for them. Believe in God. Pray him for help and think coolly how you could solve your problem. Don't take any hasty decision which would put you or others associated with you in more problems. Sorry I could not give you any help except providing some lip service. Take care.
• China
20 Dec 10
Thank you very much!Maybe you can solve it.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
21 Dec 10
off course my friends may God give you solution
• India
20 Dec 10
I thinks One day you will get the answer for your dificulties that you have made!!!hehehe.
• China
21 Dec 10
Yes,today I have solved it,hahahaha
@kodukodu84 (1576)
• Malaysia
20 Dec 10
I'm sorry to hear that you are having a difficult problem at the moment. I hope you will be able to solve it very soon so you will not be confused and unhappy anymore. Be strong and be patient, take some time to think about the problem and to look for solution. Good luck and have a nice day
• China
21 Dec 10
Thank you!haaha I have solved it.
@hanz87 (11)
• Malaysia
20 Dec 10
What is your problem? If you had a difficult problem, maybe you can ask someone who is expert and have same experience in the problem you faced. Just face it and dont avoid it because it will become big problem if you do not settle it Every people faced a difficult problem and I dont think you are stupid because problem is hard to be solve. Good luck in solve your problem.
• China
20 Dec 10
Thank you,I will do my best.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
20 Dec 10
i think it`s not easy to life but you must believe that someday you can wake up dont to easily say give up my friends
• China
20 Dec 10
Thank you!I must solve it quickly.
@paula27661 (15899)
• Australia
24 Dec 10
You should not put yourself down by calling yourself stupid. We are all faced with problems every now and again and we all feel we cannot find the solution some of the time. Life can be a struggle for everyone occasionally and you should not feel inferior for having to face difficulties. Do you have a friend or relative you could share your concerns with?
• United States
23 Dec 10
You are not stupid! Just sit down and figure it out. You can do this!
• United States
21 Dec 10
Does this have anything to do with that girl that you have a crush on? If that is the case, then you know what I am going to say: "Forget her, and move on! She's not worth your time." Come on, man! Be strong! Be better than this. If this girl does not love you, then you have to let it go. I have had my heart broken too, but I moved on. I am now with the man that I am going to spend the rest of my life with, and we have been together for three years, but it took me seven years to see that, and he was right there in front of me the whole time (When I met him he was 15 and I was 19, I couldn't ask him out, and he couldn't ask me out because of state laws, if you know what I mean? I had to wait until he was 18, and trust me, he was worth the wait). Your not stupid, but you are thinking stupidly. You are letting this girl cloud your vision. Again, you need to think about YOU! Focus on yourself, focus on your goals! What kind of person do you want to be? Who do you want to be? Focus on that and work on that, and then the women will come.