Which is easier for you .Your husband to marry another woman or have a mistress?

@singup (666)
Malaysia
December 24, 2010 7:34am CST
Which is easier for you Your husband to marry another woman or have a mistress
6 responses
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
24 Dec 10
Marrying another woman would mean that we have divorced or that our marriage was annulled. I think that would be easier for me to accept than seeing him having an affair or mistress. Who would want to share a husband? I want him to be mine, not because I am selfish rather the relationship of marriage is not just a game where we can play fire.
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
25 Dec 10
If he wants to stay and remains to be womanizing, I think I would rather choose to give way and make him leave. It should not be me who will leave. If I have given him so many chances to stop his affairs, then there is also a time when my patience breaks. I would not tolerate it. If he continues to be fooling me and cheating on me despite him being a family man, then I would rather stay away and let him do his thing. But I would never let him bring his woman in our family home. Hence, I would not also allow him to get marry.
@cecelgay (563)
• Philippines
24 Dec 10
Hi Singup, when you say husband it means that you're still legally married, and if you are legally married he's not allowed to marry another woman, and if he's into another relationship it means that he have a mistress, but if you say that he can marry another woman it means that you're not legally married or he's already your ex-husband or you're already divorced . If the case is he's already your "ex-husband" I think on your relationship went already to a difficult situation to end up into a divorce, with that it would be easier for me to accept the fact that my Ex-Husband will marry another woman than my Husband had another woman, because if he had another woman.
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@singup (666)
• Malaysia
24 Dec 10
I liked your analysis of my case and that you have forgotten that the subject of debate.I do not like knock myself :) That your analysis of the talk Move your to go out to the solution fits with what you love but it is far from the question.
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
24 Dec 10
well i know my husband is beyond in love with me (even when i act like a b-word towards him at times). it doesnt really matter what i do. he will still love me and only me. he has told me this and proven it to me countless times. hat being said, i dont think he would ever even get curious about other women. in fact he has told me on several occasions that i am the only woman he finds attracive. so i highly doubt he would ever cheat or anything. that being said, however, i would be absolutely crushed if he did ever cheat because he is the love of my life. neither would be easier for me.
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@singup (666)
• Malaysia
24 Dec 10
I hope that remains between you love forever. But the cancellation of any possibility of another wrongful act . Yes you love your husband and he loves you but what will happen so you do not? if you leave you one day Do you crash? The existence of an alternative plan even as a precaution will not hurt There are the many stories we hear of this kind.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
24 Dec 10
My husband is only allowed to marry me. He only has eyes for me, so marrying another woman or having a mistress would never even cross his mind.
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@singup (666)
• Malaysia
24 Dec 10
As may be going on in the mind of men, women may not know. Yes, he must marry you just and his eyes on you,But in the case the choice between marriage with another Or go with mistresses Which will be choosing?
• India
30 Jan 11
I am man here of just 26 years old. I can't express my answer because i can't feel the reality of being a wife(true wife) but i know this is really hard to choose any one of them. Although a complete woman have a full authority of not sharing a husband but i think women have to shower all her love and confidence in his man so that he would remain her husband for his whole life. As i always say till the last breathe.
@fgb_fritz (278)
• Philippines
24 Dec 10
do i read the question right? neither of them are not easier, but it is good to marry on another woman as long as you have a good closure for your first relation mistress,boo!! this should not do
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@singup (666)
• Malaysia
24 Dec 10
Yes You have read the debate question correctly. But do you think that the first wife accept that good closure relation?