Reasons Women Tend Often Angry?
December 25, 2010 7:56am CST
Apart from the obvious expressive, a psychology from the University of South Florida, Charles Speilberger, Ph.D. think the women have hormones that are not stable. In fact, menuri co-editor of a book titled 'International Handbook of Anger', the anger has got its own facilities. "Now women are more happy to vent his anger through the media of social networking, reality show to write a book." Anger, recognized Speilberger, not another case like the intimate relationship that is almost done routinely. So what exactly is the underlying reason for your anger? Would you like to change this bad habit? See tips. The trigger anger and the solution? In the past, you often express anger by slamming the door and left the people who make us angry. But now, times have changed, the world is increasingly technology frees you to vent anger. Able to type email, SMS, and even make Facebok or Twitter status. However, this is actually considered dangerous. According to Scott Wetzler, Ph.D., a psychiatrist and professor from New York City's Montefiore Medical Center, this action is harmful to the psychological condition of people who are angry. Especially women. "People who vent their own anger, in the sense just pour in your account via email or social networking, will miss the importance of argument and confrontation," he said, as quoted from Shine. In essence, you still need the presence of another person as the media confrontation. "Troubleshooting with the solitude will only fuel the anger that was getting worse," he added. According to Wetzler, anger will have a positive effect if you could see the facial reactions, body language and voice intonation to hear the other person, during a conversation. So, all things that make you go get a response and resolved directly. In other words, argumentation and communication can be the best way to reduce and gradually eliminate your anger. Conversely, women who tend to vent anger hobby that just by typing status in the social networking account, it will trigger the anger rising. "Perhaps you feel satisfied with blasphemy by writing, but the more you feel satisfied, without realizing it, the emotion of anger that will further worsen," said the professor added. It is also justified by a researcher from the University of Minnesota. He said, even communication through mobile phones too risky. "The sound quality is bad and other disorders could be a misinterpretation. The result can lead to conflict, resentment and misunderstanding," he said. Eddie Reece, a psychotherapist based in Atlanta, distinguish between anger into two categories, negative and positive. Negative Anger is often marked by shouting and hitting. While anger is positive, based on maturity, communication control and confidence. No need to resist the feeling, Reece said, simply set the way you communicate. "Anger can be a most intimate emotions between two people who want to share. By learning to be more prudent and responsible, you will not only become more calm and healthy, but also will be happier," said Reece.
25 Dec 10
yes, definitely a nice read. Although for me, i think women get angry most of the time because they want to be wooed and get that attention. Again, it is only my opinion and i am not in any way generalizing women. Although that is only on certain occasions because as the book says, men are from mars and women are from venus where they cannot really fully understand each other no matter how hard they try. They are simply designed to be different, no matter how much we try to find that missing link.