Do you care others?

Hi jackhill, Not that we all have to follow others but there are certain fields where it becomes necessity that we adopt others; ways and there is no harm at all. There is a saying - 'When you eat, eat according to your choice and when you are to put on clothes ask second person if or not the dress has suited your personality. Other things you may not care. Just go as you like.

If you are already comfortable with what you are wearing, why bother asking or listening to other's opinions. I usually ask others when I am not sure of what I am wearing fits me. When it comes to my way of living nobody can dictate it.

I don't think i will change my style just because somebody comenting how i look. I feel enjoy to be who i am.

hello jack, Well others opinion doesn't really matters to me if i am going to change myself or the way i choose my clothes becoz that is what i want and not what others want me to be. :) have a nice day!

Hi jackjill123, and all responders to this discussion. I believe we are all individuals, each different in our ways of dressing and our likes and dislikes. You have a natural right to follow your own style as long as it isn't disgraceful or decadent in any way. If your style or manners aren't up to a certain standard, (e.g. you clothes are dirty, or not ironed, or you are swearing a lot), then sometimes a word from a friend is a good thing to pull us together. However, if you look decent, act decently, etc. then no-one has the right to tell you to change. That's what I think, anyway.

i don't really want to change my styles everything that makes me feel comfortable just because my friends of people said that it's not good for me,, when i dress,or do something i always check if this will be good or not,if this is or or it will just ruin everything,, so whenever i hear people talking back at me or making any bad comments about me i don't mind them cause in the first place, i've already made a "checklist"..

no i don't actually... i live my life for God and it is His opinions that matters to me... and not people's opinions... i have my own style and if other people don't like it, then it is too bad... i never commented on other people's appearance as well as i think every people is created unique and they have their own way in presenting their personalities... take care and have a nice day...

As long as i am happy with the things that i am wearing that is all that matters.I do not care what other people think to the way i dress or live my life.Some people would be better off looking at the way that they live their life rather than saying things about others.

No I would never change my style and or persona due to how others think of me, as to date I find that I am very helpful and kind. If people find it otherwise I suppose that is there problem and not mine, no?? I can see if my style was outlandish maybe I might wonder why they thought that way but still would not change who I am to please others as they met me this way and what they see is what they get.

I usually ask the opinions of my friends who tells the truth of whether a dress looks good on me or not. I myself, already knows how i look because of course i have seen it on a whole body mirror. I take criticism as constructive most specially from my trusted friend, so from there i could more or less gauge if i will take some change on how i look.

I tend to not listen to what other people think to the things that i wear and i would never say to a friend or a family member that i do not like what they are wearing, or how they live their life.As long as i am happy in the way that i dress as well as the way that i live then i am happy with that.

Thank you for your question Jack. For me, I do care. But it does not really mean that I have to change the things I am doing and where I am comfortable with. I care for their comments, suggestions, and critics but that does not have o change everything. The important thing is I am being myself. I learn from people's opinion though.

To be honest other people's opinion doesn't bother me too much, unless i notice that something about me isn't right too. But when it comes to style i don't care what other people think, i dress and live the way i want :).

Sometimes I do. I want to know how they see my attitude and style. I do this for a better me. I take their opinions but I filter them. But when it means to disobey God's commands, I don't. Because I care more on how God sees me than how other people see me.

Hello again, i never allow someone's opinion to effect to my own life or thinking. And also i never give my opinion for things, which are not my business. Only if someone ask me what i think, i'll give advice or whatever the person wants, but i never blame the people, even if i don't like their choices. There is a line in every relations and i would more than happy if people around me don't cross the line with their own unasked opinion.