Do you care others?

India
December 26, 2010 9:07am CST
If your friends or anybody comenting about your dress do you change your clothes? If they really don't like the way you are living will you change your living style? Do you care others in these matters? I don't care ohter people what they think about my style, if I feel comfort I won't listen anybody.i like the way I am living. Do you really care others in your life?
15 responses
@krajibg (11940)
• Guwahati, India
26 Dec 10
Hi jackhill, Not that we all have to follow others but there are certain fields where it becomes necessity that we adopt others; ways and there is no harm at all. There is a saying - 'When you eat, eat according to your choice and when you are to put on clothes ask second person if or not the dress has suited your personality. Other things you may not care. Just go as you like.
• India
27 Dec 10
dear krajibj Five fingers also not equal, so each individual has different opinion about dressing or life style.
@krajibg (11940)
• Guwahati, India
27 Dec 10
Yes that is why you need other's opinions. Did I say anything odd?
@angel107 (311)
• Germany
26 Dec 10
If you are already comfortable with what you are wearing, why bother asking or listening to other's opinions. I usually ask others when I am not sure of what I am wearing fits me. When it comes to my way of living nobody can dictate it.
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• India
27 Dec 10
Yes I support you angel.
• Philippines
26 Dec 10
hello jack, Well others opinion doesn't really matters to me if i am going to change myself or the way i choose my clothes becoz that is what i want and not what others want me to be. :) have a nice day!
• India
27 Dec 10
If we are comfortable , then no need to worry obout others.
@elkanwa (625)
• Malaysia
26 Dec 10
I don't think i will change my style just because somebody comenting how i look. I feel enjoy to be who i am.
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• India
27 Dec 10
Dear elkanwa, We cannot change ourselves to others sometimes.
@yhanie (189)
• Philippines
26 Dec 10
i don't really want to change my styles everything that makes me feel comfortable just because my friends of people said that it's not good for me,, when i dress,or do something i always check if this will be good or not,if this is or or it will just ruin everything,, so whenever i hear people talking back at me or making any bad comments about me i don't mind them cause in the first place, i've already made a "checklist"..
@cachalot (60)
• Australia
28 Dec 10
Hi jackjill123, and all responders to this discussion. I believe we are all individuals, each different in our ways of dressing and our likes and dislikes. You have a natural right to follow your own style as long as it isn't disgraceful or decadent in any way. If your style or manners aren't up to a certain standard, (e.g. you clothes are dirty, or not ironed, or you are swearing a lot), then sometimes a word from a friend is a good thing to pull us together. However, if you look decent, act decently, etc. then no-one has the right to tell you to change. That's what I think, anyway.
@SIMPLYD (78113)
• Philippines
27 Dec 10
I usually ask the opinions of my friends who tells the truth of whether a dress looks good on me or not. I myself, already knows how i look because of course i have seen it on a whole body mirror. I take criticism as constructive most specially from my trusted friend, so from there i could more or less gauge if i will take some change on how i look.
@nestle11 (86)
• Philippines
27 Dec 10
Sometimes I do. I want to know how they see my attitude and style. I do this for a better me. I take their opinions but I filter them. But when it means to disobey God's commands, I don't. Because I care more on how God sees me than how other people see me.
@lingli_78 (12846)
• Australia
27 Dec 10
no i don't actually... i live my life for God and it is His opinions that matters to me... and not people's opinions... i have my own style and if other people don't like it, then it is too bad... i never commented on other people's appearance as well as i think every people is created unique and they have their own way in presenting their personalities... take care and have a nice day...
• United States
27 Dec 10
No I would never change my style and or persona due to how others think of me, as to date I find that I am very helpful and kind. If people find it otherwise I suppose that is there problem and not mine, no?? I can see if my style was outlandish maybe I might wonder why they thought that way but still would not change who I am to please others as they met me this way and what they see is what they get.
• Philippines
26 Dec 10
Thank you for your question Jack. For me, I do care. But it does not really mean that I have to change the things I am doing and where I am comfortable with. I care for their comments, suggestions, and critics but that does not have o change everything. The important thing is I am being myself. I learn from people's opinion though.
@jugsjugs (13045)
26 Dec 10
As long as i am happy with the things that i am wearing that is all that matters.I do not care what other people think to the way i dress or live my life.Some people would be better off looking at the way that they live their life rather than saying things about others.
@cryox92 (170)
• Macedonia
26 Dec 10
To be honest other people's opinion doesn't bother me too much, unless i notice that something about me isn't right too. But when it comes to style i don't care what other people think, i dress and live the way i want :).
@joystick (1680)
26 Dec 10
I tend to not listen to what other people think to the things that i wear and i would never say to a friend or a family member that i do not like what they are wearing, or how they live their life.As long as i am happy in the way that i dress as well as the way that i live then i am happy with that.
@Suggar (3612)
• Bulgaria
26 Dec 10
Hello again, i never allow someone's opinion to effect to my own life or thinking. And also i never give my opinion for things, which are not my business. Only if someone ask me what i think, i'll give advice or whatever the person wants, but i never blame the people, even if i don't like their choices. There is a line in every relations and i would more than happy if people around me don't cross the line with their own unasked opinion.