Is it wrong to want your

United States
December 26, 2010 8:26pm CST
stats on facebook or myspace to say you are in a relationship with your bf or gf? If your love the person it should not be a big deal right?
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10 responses
• United States
27 Dec 10
My boyfriend and I put in a relationship as bf/gf but I've noticed some people don't do it with their partner and I'm not quire sure why maybe they're not at that stage yet?
• United States
29 Dec 10
yeah i was a little aggravated with it but he is going to change it.
• United States
27 Dec 10
And it is a big deal if your significant other doesn't... I'd be mad if my boyfriend didn't put in a relationship with ME!
@ptower76 (1616)
• United States
27 Dec 10
I think wether or not it's a deal is relative to who is posting. Some people do it and others do not. If one loves someone I don't see why they would not admit it to the world. If they don't, perhaps they are not being sincere to their self or to the bf/gf.
• United States
29 Dec 10
That is true. thanks and how are you?
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
27 Dec 10
Hi sweetie. I won't say it's wrong or right. I personally think it's a big deal when you love someone and most of us love to let the world know about it. As it is such a great feeling we share it. Everyone won't feel the same about it though. Hope that helped. TATA.
• United States
29 Dec 10
it did thanks. I like getting others pinons.
• Philippines
27 Dec 10
hello ladybugr2d2! i think if you are truly in a relationship, it is just right to put it in your facebook stat, if both of you want it. if you both want the world to know that you're already both taken and proud of it, well, that's for you to decide to do it. It should not be a big deal really if both of you are for it. but when one of you has some issues on it, well, that could be the cause of misunderstandings. if other people are making a big deal out of it, well, don't mind them, it's your page anyway and it's your stats and its your relationship. You're entitled to do anything you display on it as long as it's not hurting somebody else perhaps who has the right to be hurt, lol.
• United States
29 Dec 10
that is true it was manly the fact that it would not let him change it for some resown and instead of telling me that he went into a rant it was kinda funny.
@ocikca (110)
• Indonesia
27 Dec 10
sure it's not a problem at all but sometimes we dont want public to know what our relation status. some time it fell save coz we dont need to answer many question about who is he/she. For me its not such a big deal to put our relationship status on facebook or other. The most important is I love him and treat him well. facebook relation stat not important at all.
• United States
29 Dec 10
That is a good point. I was more trying to fingered out why it was such a big deal to him and found out it was acutely something silly.
@lunion (64)
• Indonesia
27 Dec 10
I think it's very important. First, to announce to the world that you two become an item and no one should interfere. Second, to announce to your bf/gf that you want everyone to know about you two, and you're not afraid to face the consequences. Just some insight.
• United States
29 Dec 10
That is how i feel about it. thanks. I think if you love some one it should be known and show you are committed to the one you are with.
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
27 Dec 10
well since i am in love but i am actually in a committed relationship i think it is kind of a big deal. it is really annoying to me to see people do stuff like change their relationship status to married but then you go on their profile to find out who they are supposed to be married to, but then you see that it is just their best friend (not one who they even have feelings for). just like it is stupid to say you are related to people when you're not. my sister actually got offended because one of my friends claimed to be my sister on facebook. you would think it is not a big deal but for some reason people (including me) are offended by the lies on social networking sites.
• United States
29 Dec 10
yeah it can be aggravating i mean family some times is not blood thou. but i havve my 2 cousins as my brother and sister. but their mom is my godmother.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
27 Dec 10
Oh but it is a big deal, especially when you love the person...you want people to know you are taken, not available, and very happy to be in the relationship...Or do you mean it wouldn't be a big deal to admit it, that you are in a relationship, right?
• United States
27 Dec 10
You got it right I want peaple to know and it seemed to be odd but i figerd out what the problem was he is not so great with computers. lol i love my baby.
• Philippines
27 Dec 10
yes i guess it shouldn't be a big deal.. it depends if you both want to keep it private or public..
@cssiduyz (1053)
• Indonesia
27 Dec 10
I do not understand what you mean. because I can not capture the intent of your post. Sorry.