true love and lie

@gengeni (3308)
December 27, 2010 12:17pm CST
When love comes often can not distinguish between true love / lies how to distinguish? Often we can not distinguish between true love and lie and make us wonder "Is he really ~ really love me?" In the view of true love that you guys who like what? thanks to all who've shared
3 responses
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
5 Jan 11
I also sometimes difficult to distinguish. but there is usually a misunderstanding between the goodness with love. when people are good, like giving attention to whether it is called love? if we look deeper into it just at the beginning, only the skin but in it there is no real love. if anyone has watched the movie escape from huang shi. there exists a real love value. there is a western youth who want to sacrifice for others & the kids. because of his love & affection he sacrificed his life. so that true love exists the value of his sacrifice, he was not thinking of himself. but because of his love that he's willing to sacrifice themselves.
• Indonesia
30 Dec 10
True love ... Why should 'true love'? That means there is "no true love"? Yeah, right. There is a love which is not true. However, true love does not mean not expect love in return. Even with the true love he should expect the same love of which she loved, or more. It's just that he should carry consequences. True love, he should expect his love accepted and render. Example: Love of a servant to God. So the necessity for him hope for his Lord accepted her love and love him, with a like or even more. What happens if the servant was admitted in love with God but he did not expect love in return from God, do not expect kindness, So easily we can say that love is love which is not true. Is it wrong if the parents are angry when they snapped their children? Or is it false to say if parents expect her love affection from his son? Those who have sense and religion certainly agree that's even true love from parents to their children.
@aleic27 (161)
• Philippines
28 Dec 10
I think in later months in a relationship it became more easy to differentiate if he loves you of not. It shows more on the gestures of a person.