Facing breakup?

Indonesia
December 28, 2010 11:38pm CST
farewell with a special person is a sad thing. even tried to forget, is still good memories together 'she' continues to haunt. separation is not separation that I deal with me and he will. so now i what to do? I do not know what to do?
3 responses
@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
10 Jan 11
instead we want all together instead of apart.They say unity friendship started from the rope and the rope will be fragile friendship over time unless we add a string friendship
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 10
if you dare to meet must be brave enough to face breakup, after all, why memories should be "forced" to be forgotten? they will not matter who is the beautiful color in your life? faced with tough and sturdy like a real man. do not be whiny and overly dramatizing the situation which should be of great memories of you, seems so very sad thing. we ill be too selfish in this case, however the cause of separation must take a lesson, maybe God has another plan which is better for both of you, so take it with a sense of sincerity.
@nanayangel (7839)
• Philippines
29 Dec 10
Hi there Kendedes 2011! You're right. Letting someone you love go is one of the hardest things that humans face. I believe that it is perfectly normal to miss him, though. To feel sad whenever you are reminded about him through little things - a song, a word, a photograph, a common friend - almost everything especially when the wound of break-up is still fresh, untouched by the healing hands of time. It is okay to be sad, to shed tears for the lost love. When you feel that you're finally ready to face the world, I strongly suggest that you spend times with the people you neglected when you were still in a relationship. Spend time with your family and friends - the people who loves you and cares for you the most, wherein rejection and pain seems unheard of. Gradually, the pain will be lessened, the wound will heal and you will be able to see the sunshine as a promise of a new day, a new life.