I am alone.........

@dibs2010 (132)
India
December 29, 2010 1:00pm CST
I am feeling alone, no one replying me of my discussion. i start discussion from the bottom of my hart but after posting the discussion i do not found any reply discussion from any my-lot member. when a see that my discussion do not got any reply from any member then i rely feel alone.is my discussion's are very bad to reply??????
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16 responses
• United States
29 Dec 10
Do not feel bad, as sometimes it is a matter of timing. Sometimes you can post a discussion and a vast of members perhaps are not online at the time. I am very active so I am surprised I have not seen your discussion or maybe I did not have anything to truly contribute towards them. You are fairly new so my suggestion is that you continue to respond to members with quality content and members will remember you and seek your discussions. I have discussions that I start that continue to get responses even after a week so see sometimes members are not simply on at the moment. There are times also that some members start loads of discussions at one time which cause yours and or others to move down the tabs. So try and be a bit patient and continue posting you will gain more members seeking yours. Good luck to you and I wish you well.
@CRIVAS (1815)
• Canada
30 Dec 10
I have to say that the way that you write your discussions might have something to do with it. I don't mean to sound rude, but you haven't even taken the time to spell check your discussions. Personally I think that the reason that you aren't getting any responses is because of the poor spelling, and possibly the fact that you aren't starting discussions that people find interesting. It is okay to write about things that you feel strongly about, however, having said that, if the topic isn't relevant to others, or interesting for that matter, people are less likely to look at your discussion. Take the time to read some articles in the same topic area as yours, it might give you a few pointers on how to improve your writing. I know that there are a lot of people on here (myself included unless I feel that I can help) who will not read discussions like yours simply because of poor spelling and formatting. I hope that this helps you and I look forward to seeing any improvements that you make. Good luck.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
No you are not alone we are here. Maybe they are not interested to your topic that is why no reply. I had also a discussion that no one replied and i am not feeling hurt. That is okay with because I know that if the topic was not so interesting by them i know they won't response but they are here... so try to post and post only. For me i write here what i feel and i am not bothered if they are not responding.All I think was it's fine and there is one person who will got an interest if not all. So be happy we are here...
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
30 Dec 10
No, you can not be alone. People are there. It happens in the initial stage. Try to send friend request and then they would learn that you have posted something new. Good luck.
• India
30 Dec 10
Don't feel discouraged..... Just keep trying. One day you will definitely succeed in MyLot.
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
no ....thats not really bad...i think u should wait ...
• Nigeria
29 Dec 10
no dearie...you are not alone...you have friends that care about you...i am your friend okay?
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
29 Dec 10
Here's one response to your discussion. Sorry u aren't getting responses. It takes awhile to get established in mylot. Just give it some time. Happy new year.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
29 Dec 10
"I love you from the bottom of my heart!" That is and always will be an awesome song. I haven't thought about it in awhile. there is so much good music out there. Let's see, "wind beneath my wings is good too." I haven't seen a discussion from you recently, but I am sure if I did...I would at least attempt to reply. Cheer up...sending sunny smiles your way.
• United States
29 Dec 10
Hi Dibs, how are you? I will be your friend if you need a friend here in my lot. There are a lot of people here to chat with it just takes some time I have been here 2 years and some times I too feel alone, like when my discussions don't get any replies but I learned that they will be answered eventually and it just takes time so welcome, and you are not alone there are lots of nice people here!!
@ankster (273)
• India
30 Dec 10
Hey dont get upset.You will get reply soon.I also get disappointed when my discussions are not responded.dont worry you just keep patience and soon you will find many people responding to your discussions.Keep on posting your discussions.Dont stop posting them.I guess sometimes people dont want to pay any attention others discussions started.So why to bother about such insensitive people.Keep up the spirits.
• United States
29 Dec 10
Don't feel down or worry yourself about it that much, you have to understand also there are a lot of users on this site and there are so many discussions going on at the same time that it is difficult to get to all of them. Trust me, I have numerous of discussions in which I started and I have 0 to may two responses at most. I see that you are also kind of new just like me because you only have 70 discussions posted, once you post more discussion and you number goes higher I am pretty sure that you will get more responses. Just remember to try and stay as active as you can and discuss on other people's topic as well.
@cssiduyz (1053)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 10
not a bad problem or not. but you should try to be patient, because each of our business is not easy to get what we want. and not only you experienced anything like it, perhaps many of the other mylotter who experience it. so, try to be patient friend.
@AJsMom (157)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
I haven't seen any of your posts yet. Let me add you to my friend list so your posts will be seen from my homepage. I haven't tried to start any discussion yet but I hope I wont end up like what you've been into. I hope my friends will support me here. But anyway, just accept my request and I will try my best to comment on your discussion. Keep on doing mylot!
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
29 Dec 10
Hello, first of all you are not alone, i'm around and a lot of other members are still here, writing What i can give you as advice is try to respond discussions first and when you have more experience you will learn how to put catching topics so more of the people around will feel interested to answer you. I had the same experience when i started months ago. But after two unsuccessful discussions, i just started to read what the others write and started to participate where the topic was interesting for me. That learned me to make interesting discussions by myself. I can't say that to all of my discussions i have a lot responses, but when you have more experience you will have clear idea what discussions would be interesting around and what discussions wouldn't be.
@Vaultar (95)
• Romania
29 Dec 10
Ugh... I honestly have no idea , I respond to every discussion that's not hard to reply to but I haven't seen any of yours around lately , I doubt the discussion was that bad , maybe people didn't spot it or something , keep trying ! :D