I am so Mad!!

United States
December 30, 2010 10:00pm CST
My husband called me 3 hours ago and said he would be here in an hour it's been 3!! And i called him just now and he said oh I am at my brothers and moms What the f? Could he not have told me that? Would you be mad and another thing is I was here alone with my daughter and scared but I am not scared anymore!! I am p.......off!!! What would you do?
2 people like this
6 responses
@jbrooks0127 (2329)
• United States
31 Dec 10
This was an extremely inconsiderate thing for him to do. Most people that are married keep each other informed if there are changes they need to know about. I would be very mad and would have to wonder how much consideration he had for me and my daughter to pull something like that. You clearly had to be the last thing on his mind. I hope you tell him how much he made you worry and get a full explanation as to why he did this. I truly hope you can work this out. Just be as calm as possible and work it out with him.
1 person likes this
• United States
31 Dec 10
Yes it was very inconsiderate of him I believe that too. Anyway he said he was sorry but I am still a little upset but I am sure I will get over it and we will not be fighting anymore.Thanks for your response and have a good day!
• United States
31 Dec 10
Good....I am glad to hear that. We men tend to not think about how much you may worry and let time get away from us. I would think he will be a little more considerate of you next time. Happy you have worked it out. Happy New year to you both!
@marguicha (78311)
• Chile
31 Dec 10
I understand how you feel. My father did that once to my mom. I was already married. We called every hospital, we thought of accidents... You know. That was before the cellphone. When he arrived (very happy because he had been with a friend who had a bookshop and had brought some books to mom) we almost killed him. My mother and siblings wouldn´t talk to him, but I´m the yelling type. And I YELLED. How could he...! The problem is not how long he is away but why don´t they say! You should explain to him that you were VERY scared.
1 person likes this
• United States
31 Dec 10
I already yelled at him he just got here and I will tell him I was scared too but in a few minutes and soon, I just think he should have told me that's all. I don't think it was right for him not to say anything and have me cooking him dinner and waiting like that.
1 person likes this
@marguicha (78311)
• Chile
31 Dec 10
You are right that he shoud have told you. But my advise is that you don´t give him the silent treatment. Men forget and don´t mind much and you are stuch with your anger. Why don´t you just explain how scared you were and why? Let me tell you something about latin men: they like to protect women (they want them strong, but want us to tell them we need their protection).The silent treatment won´t do anything to him but the "I´m a helpless woman" bit will do the trick. Take care
• United States
31 Dec 10
I'm not married but I've been with my boyfriend for four years and I do get mad when times like that happen.. They don't notify anyone if things change makes me so mad too. I'd yell but I'd get over it too..
1 person likes this
• United States
31 Dec 10
I did yell at him and he said he was sorry it will only take me a couple of days and I will totally forget about it.Have a good day!
• United States
31 Dec 10
I would be mad to. Knowing me I would let him know how I felt about what he did, seems to me that he lied to you. I would of called his mom's house to see if that is where he really was, some men can be deceitful and tell there wives one thing and really be doing something else. I am not saying he is doing this but you never know.
1 person likes this
• United States
31 Dec 10
That is true I was very mad but I have been with him for almost 9 years and I did call and he was there I just think the whole thing was so wrong so I yelled at him when he got home and he said sorry but I am still a little upset but it will pass thanks for your response and have a good day!
• United States
31 Dec 10
Men can be like children where as they do not think about the probability that you as the wife was wondering what happened. Especially if is type to routinely come home and not disappear for hours. My thinking would be like yours instantly that something happened also, then anger would kick in as I would feel like he was inconsiderate.
• United States
31 Dec 10
Yes that is so true! Men are like children at times and I hate that!! I HAVE ALREADY YELLED AT HIM AND NOW i am giving him the silent treatment!L.O.L. If my mother was here she would say okay children enough!!
1 person likes this
• United States
31 Dec 10
Did you see that car again? Did you tell your husband about the car in the neighborhood? Yes, I'd be very angry if this occurred though my husband and I have never had this issue. Even when he was in his accident at the start of this year I was the first person he phoned. Just stay safe! Namaste-Anora
• United States
31 Dec 10
I have not seen it only those 2 times but you can never be sure. I have not had a chance to tell him yet because I was yelling at him. But I am going to let him know soon. Thanks!!
1 person likes this