Marriage - supposed to be easy...

relationships are not easy... - we all know relations ships are not easy to build and retain..
India
January 2, 2011 6:49am CST
relationships are not easy to build or easy to maintain for life time... Is marriage supposed to be easy?
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5 responses
• United States
2 Jan 11
ANYONE who tells you marriage is easy is LYING to you. Maintaining a long-term or even lifetime relationship with someone is hard work. There are no two ways about it. You are talking about two individual persons living in the same space all the time for years and years. There is GOING to be conflict. There is GOING to be hard times. People who have no conflict are lying to themselves. The only times there is NO conflict or disagreements whatsoever is when one or both partner are not communicating and simply keeping their mouth shut and suffering in silence whenever they feel bad or don't agree or anything at all. This method does one of two things, you will either become bitter and resentful of you partner and your life or you will simply shut down and be quietly miserable until the day you die.
• United States
2 Jan 11
It can be as easy as we want it to be. It's up to the individual partner. How do we react to the things our partner say's. Do you say things just to get to your partner? How you communicate is very important. A good marriage is all about communication.
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
2 Jan 11
Hello my friend from my point of view everything will become easy if you are prepared to do it, well planned, there is love between, willingness. It is depends on the person how treated marriage, if they treated as like normal thing most thing will be abnormal but if you have given focus, determination and courage it is become easy.. see you around
@spencari (265)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 11
nothing impossible in this world, as long as we want to get it, easy or not we will decide when we take an action to move in,,, everything in this world cannot be provided easily we must fight to get it, we must move to earn something precious for our life,,, hoping something can be run easily is not make any sense for me, sometimes people who has opinion everything gonna be easy and we should do anything for it will end with desperate... believe me impossible is nothing but we must fight on in to make it
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
2 Jan 11
To get married is easy.To remain married is more difficult.But being happy in marriage for life,are among the finest arts!