reasons behind men's infidelity

Philippines
January 4, 2011 7:37am CST
I just don't understand why some guy still flirted or looked for other woman's company while they are in a relationship, especially if they are already married. Nobody's perfect, anyway. I learned that my husband has been flirting with a woman through text messaging. I want to let it pass because I don't want to stoop down to their level. But it's hurting my pride, though. I just told my husband that if he keeps flirting and trying to get into another relationship, he's destroying his family and I'm willing to end our marriage. Am I over reacted?
3 responses
@jayen28 (84)
17 May 11
Maybe because there are some men believe,to prove their masculine effect, is to flirt other women. the more women they got its boost their pride to the others men they know. But in your case try to asked your husband in sweet way, though you almost burst your emotion ,try to keep it up with all your power because sometime when men feel he is accuse , he stubborn to do so, to prove his worth, That's my opinion to the other men. But depend on your part.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 11
In my opinion, your actions do not overdo it. As a wife, have the right to be jealous, and defend her husband. Unlike me, who let my husband seduce another woman. Although I am still a wife, I am very sorry, let my husband, seducing other women. Because, really affect the lives of our household.
• Brazil
4 Jan 11
Well, I believe that we (men) need to be in love. If he's not in love for you, he's probably looking for that chatting with other people. And I think you'll agree with me that meet someone is always good, give us good filling discovering the other people, and what he/she have in common with us. Try to talk with he, ask what is the problem, if get in a gym could make the things better, take a vacation...