How can you know if your friend still have faith in you?

Philippines
January 7, 2011 10:56am CST
I'm a kind of a friendly person. I had lots of friends when I was in High School. But as much as there were many of them, most left me and betrayed me. From that moment on, I started to be flexible in choosing my friends. I have my own way of testing my friends' faith in me. I'm telling them some personal secrets of mine. If the word spread, it means he/she betrayed me. The only hurtful thin was, as I gave many of my friends this kind of test, there is I think only one who passed. He is my best friend. Even though he is my best friend, I gave him a test also because we became apart from each other to live with his grandparents. He is always online in facebook. The secret I gave him as the test was my facebook password which until now, I haven't changed. I will know If he still is my best friend my facebook account is still accessible. There is no reason for him to forget what was the password because it was our both favorite food. I miss him so much. I don't see him online these days.
3 responses
• Philippines
7 Jan 11
You shouldn't be too serious about picking your friends. We are all bound to be deceived. What you have to be worried about is protecting yourself from deceit. It may cost you bigger than what you're expecting that's why deceit is one of the most feared event that may happen to us, at least in my opinion.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
7 Jan 11
Hi frontvisions, That is so very true - We are all bound to be deceived - this is what would allow us to know the value of honesty and trustworthy people better
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
7 Jan 11
Hi Blacksun, It was sad to know this happened to you. But it happens and happens for good. The betrayal thing you mention helped you try finding good friend. And you are lucky to have at least one. Now that you dont find your friend online, did you try contacting him over phone or any other way? I think not. Do It man. What is stopping you? If you say he changed his number, try reaching him physically or use the Facebook thing... There are a million ways and all you need is to start the process.... Be a friend.
@yhanie (188)
• Philippines
7 Jan 11
i don't give test just to make sure they're true,, i just make sure that when i make friends, i'd be loyal,, in this way, i have gained many friends, even unfaithful one,, but still i don't trash them,, friendship for me is not about testing, it's simply about friendship