have a baby...

@pit33pit (534)
Indonesia
January 7, 2011 11:44am CST
a friend told me, he and her partner really wanted to have s baby is always delayed, even though we still life difficult situations that desire is still there. in your opinion, they need to continue the plan with the current difficult conditions or to be delayed until things get better?
5 responses
@buggles64 (2715)
• United States
7 Jan 11
I have always thought that God would provide no matter the circumstance...where there is a will there is a way. If potential parents believe that they need to wait until things "get better" or they actually "afford" to have a child...it will never come to pass. One must work according to "God's will" and not manipulate the circumstance to their "own will."
@pit33pit (534)
• Indonesia
8 Jan 11
I agree completely, the expression in which there is a will there is a way. I always use in everyday life.
• Philippines
7 Jan 11
They have to wait til the situation settles down. Having a baby is another burden to handle and I'm sure they don't want to have more problems. They should resolve the current situation before having a baby.
@pit33pit (534)
• Indonesia
8 Jan 11
I have to agree with you, complete the problems before they added the problem. thank you
• Philippines
8 Jan 11
hi! Having a baby is so easy. but we need to be prepared before stepping into this new stage of your life. it would be best to prioritize important things, when you're ready, then you can have a baby.
• United States
8 Jan 11
There will never be a right time and or how is the right way to raise for children. The main thing to keep in mind is to make sure both are mental and financially able. There are so many stresses in life and without the readiness it becomes that more difficult. They certainly need to make sure and be aware of what is expected and then the rest comes easy.
@PDBME2 (1023)
• United States
7 Jan 11
It depends on what is their difficult situation. I have heard so many people say that financially they need to be ready and it never comes. I do admit that having children means that life for you is over. I love my kids but it's giving up all the things that make you happy to give it to your baby. In my case I get more joy making them happy because I love them.