Have you ever had a thought of Leaving your Girl Friend/Boy Friend??

@arunmails (3013)
India
January 8, 2011 4:55am CST
[b]Friends, Probably all of us have a Girl Friend/ Boy Friend. People who have girl friend or boy friend will have fights and quarrels with each other. In spite of those fights and quarrels they both love each other very much. But, when these fights and quarrels go extreme probably some of us(not everyone) might have a thought of leaving his/her girlfriend/boyfriend. Now, have you ever had a thought of Leaving your Girl Friend/Boy Friend? [/b]
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10 responses
@asliah (11148)
• Philippines
11 Jan 11
hi, yeah, i did that,and i never been sleep with my boyfriend for 1 week, because i really hate him during that time, but the he made the first moved so i returned to him and sleep with him again.
• Philippines
9 Jan 11
hi arun, Well i am single right now but i was in a relationship before we had fights and arguments but i did not come to the point of leaving him. As long as i can fix things up i am trying my best we got separated and that is for good at last i left him for some reasons but i never look back i am the kind of girl if i say it's over it is rally over i am not into ON and OFF dramas. happy posting
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
9 Jan 11
often... sometimes i just can't face the trial. we know that there is always up and down in a relation. and when the hard times come, i feel like i want to run away and leave all behind.
@savypat (20246)
• United States
8 Jan 11
As long as you are totally honest with each other, taking a vacation away from a relationship that has grown stressed clears your mind, allowing you to see the whole thing from a more quite, clear headed point of view.
@sunnycool (12736)
• India
8 Jan 11
Initially i had such thoughts but not anymore ... weird that all the stupid stuff she does Grrhhh's me but i'm not willing to leave her at any cost!After all she is the very first one i ever had and last one i would have!great day!
@katie0 (5212)
• Japan
8 Jan 11
i think everybody goes through that cause maybe we think there is someone better, and the habits and flaws really starts to annoy after a while, but it's always our own fault as we create expectations on other person i think that if i want to leave it's fine, but it's my fault if i didn't know the person better or that i expected illusionary things from someone that didn't promise anything like that and if i leave...i'll always find someone else with other flaws...just like...ME :)
@maean_19 (4662)
• Philippines
8 Jan 11
Not because of a quarrel or fight that I have to consider leaving my boyfriend or partner. I believer that there are solutions for every argument. Hence, it is just necessary to resolve things out before the issue gets deep and forgotten. Discussing the issue in a civil and mature manner can make things work. If you argue and quarrel and let pride control your mind, then it will lead your relationship to nothing. That is the common mistake. If leaving your partner because of a petty argument, then you have to think again. Relationships have its ups and downs, little argument, or quarrel, but it is different when there is a physical violence involve.
@brisk123 (2826)
• India
8 Jan 11
Fights and quarrels exist in every close relationships.But the question is how do we handle them?..and what is the reason behind this unpleasant fight and quarrel?..I am engaged and sometimes due to some reason I do fight with my fiance but that doesn't mean I don't love him and will leave him. I had never, ever thought of leaving him. It has been almost 6 years since we first meet and we still love each other a lot. We had put so much effort to this relationship to grow and mature. Fight can happen because of some minor issues but if not handled properly it can lead to bitterness in relationship.Couples should be mature enough to handle situations, but at times there comes certain situations where you can't help it but leave the person and walk out for good.
@Jotomy (6351)
• India
8 Jan 11
Hi arunmails, i have a friend online, a very best friend but that guy is having an attitude of making so many new girl friendship which annoys me a lot, some times thought of leaving him and doesn't want to talk or chat with him, but whenever he gives me sms or msg me then i will try to reply thinking that he may feel bad, i never want to make him unhappy not only him i never want to give pain to anyone. So i will continue like this again. I don't know i am like that, i want to change myself / my attitude but i am not. I believe once we accept as a friend anyone we must accept their good and bad also, but i only concerned about good things of her/him of my friends though i have very few friends i like to be good with them and maintain a good relationship everyone. I know that we should not expect the same as we are from them, so i will keep on moving with them as they are. It is a purely a personal matter and interest on each other. And leave everything to them because he / she may know what is bad and what is good. If they realize that itself give me happy. And if i come to know they are happy that gives me much happy. I will pray for all my family members and my friends too. And one thing i will treat god as my ever best friend because he will be always available to talk or express our sad feelings because we may not express to our friends too sometimes. I thought of my online friend is like that, i can share everything because sofar i didnt said anything or share my view or thoughts to anyone / friends, but he turned in a different way. What can i do, i can't force them or beg many times to them to come back to me. So i will try to keep away from them, if they think it is good for them and gives happy then i am happy. Have a nice day.
• Greece
8 Jan 11
I am currently single but I've had 2 long-term relationships and sometimes I thought about leaving. I have also had short-term relationships and I have thought about ending them too. However, I have never dumped anyone, it's always the guys that end up dumping me. That's because I am very patient and willing to try in order to make things work. So I say it like this: either you fix your issues or...And they're just too lazy to try and improve, so they cowardly leave.