everyday with your boy/girlfriend, don't you get weary?
January 8, 2011 10:51pm CST
Hi there mylotters! I have been in a relationship for almost a year now, and what can I say about my partner? well, i spend my life with him almost every day. after office, he will fetch me and we'll go elsewhere, relax and be with each other. we seldom fight, but there are days either of us are not in the mood, but we always try to work things out before the end of the day. i guess most relationships encounter this thing. i have been asking myself if he doesn't get weary of me, coz being with him everyday, he's like my stress reliever and just by seeing him smile makes my day complete. but mind you guys, it's his idea that we see each other every day. so, maybe like what he feels, i really love being with him - every single day. how about you, haven't you felt getting weary with your partner because you're with him/her everyday?
9 Jan 11
Sure, I do feel weary sometimes being together, but this is where personal space comes in. What we do is we allot days wherein we don't get to see each other. After those days are over, and we get to see each other again, we find ourselves missing each other, and loving each other more and more. Why not try to do the same?
9 Jan 11
I haven't spent most of the time with my boyfriend for almost everyday. I really want to be with him everyday and I get weary when he's not around especially when he's away for 3 months doing work overseas. However, when he arrives I'd always look forward to the day we'd get to spend some quality time together. It doesn't make me weary when I'm always with him. We sometimes have a little misunderstanding right after we see each other.. Right after we bid goodbyes, because I really feel hesitant to leave in his mere presence. Good thing he calls me up or sends me a message confirming if I'm okay or doing fine.^_^
• United States
9 Jan 11
I have been with my husband for 18 years and I don't think we feel like that but we do need time to ourselves every now and then. I don't mean going out with our friends but maybe a trip to the market to get things or just going out to pay bills. I tell him to sometimes go out to his friends if they invite him but he is here at home with us. I don't really have anyone I would rather go visit during this time either. When he is at work it's his time. When the kids are at school it's my time. Everyone has to face it that when you are married you will face the same issue.