Have you ever been in love through texting?

@rage35 (344)
Philippines
January 9, 2011 9:25pm CST
I just want to know if this is possible that you will find true love through phone or texting. Having a relationship through text?
14 responses
• United States
10 Jan 11
If you are asking if love is created specifically if a person is texting and never met, now that would be a lot of texting I suppose. I mean the messages would be short ones as there are only so many characters you can type in a message. Wow, that would mean back and forth for hours on end. But hey anything is possible, now if they start texting and start sending pictures back and forth, the IMing chat, and then meet yes it can be possible. But only texting, this would be interesting and wonder if anyone has ever experienced that. I think texting only is sort of flirting and setting the mood for interest. Then more has to happen, like chatting online to further the discussions between them
• India
10 Jan 11
Oh it's nothing deary. This happens to me almost every single month. But then when I say that I don't have any such interest, they withdraw in the most gross and rude way. That was a mere infatuation, and I knew she'd get over it. But I had no idea that she'd stop talking to me completely. That proves that she had that ulterior motif all along.
• United States
10 Jan 11
@biswa,if they withdraw rudely, then sounds like you dodged a bullet. , as my thinking which I sure anyone would think that if they understood, your response then they would nicely agree to disagree as this might, just might show the kind hearted person that they are. But to be grossly rude because you had the kindness to be honest says this person can/could be major heart ache later, no??
@rage35 (344)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
I've been in this kind of relationship but doesn't makes sense at all if you aren't meeting with each other. It's difficult. I rather choose not to be in this situation again.
• India
10 Jan 11
I have never, in my life, fallen in love through texting. However there is this girl whom I met online through a social networking site and she fell for me through texting. We first chatted for a few days. At first she was shy and shaky. But then she asked for my cell no and I gave it to her. But then after a few days she told me that she loved me and I was kinda shocked. She went on bragging about the same thing again and again for almost another week. I knew that this is totally meaningless. I knew it's just an infatuation on her part which will soon pass. So I just waited patiently. Each time she came up with the idea, I said that I wasn't not ready for a relationship for the time being. She finally gave up and started showing her true color. She pretended to be a good friend of mine. But then when I clearly stated that I have no intention of falling in love with her, the number of messages decreased rapidly. And now, she doesn't contact me anymore.
• United States
10 Jan 11
Hibiswa.. Really interesting, as my first thought when I read this is that it has to be like flirtation and infatuation. I could see if a few texts might drive some interest, then may lead to IMing, and phone calls but texting only. This is interesting. I learn something new everyday.
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
Hello, To win someones love is like a business. Seems you are a hard costumer on her. Have a happy day!
@rage35 (344)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
Nice story! Thanks for sharing!
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
GOOD DAY! I've never been in love through texting because its just a text. He can say whatever he want to say. I want a lover to love me personally, not through text. :) its better to have a relationship personally because relationship through text is hard. :)
@rage35 (344)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
I agree. It's very difficult that the only means of your relationship is through texting.
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
It is possible to find your true love through texting but this isn't for everyone. It really gives a good feeling to have somebody greet you in the morning, ask if you've eaten your meals or if you have a good day. Just be extra careful with the persons you're dealing with as their intentions may not be what you expect them to be.
@rage35 (344)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
Yes. I really agree. It is possible to find true love through texting.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
13 Jan 11
hi, yes, and many times i've been in loved through text, and i had many relationship through text before. i dont know why, but i so fast to fall with their text.
@rage35 (344)
• Philippines
14 Jan 11
Nice share! i Have also experience this same situation as yours.
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
Hello rage, Yes, all things are possible in the name of love. I was developed to my avid texter after several months of unceasing calls and texts. Though the situation lasted for almost 6 months with heart soothing calls and messages but there are things in life to consider. We even reached to the point of exchanging cards and pictures but never meet in person for he was a miles away. But suddenly with no reason in mind.I just woke up one morning ignoring all from him and i even change number just to get rid at all. Happy mylotting!
@rage35 (344)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
I have experience the same situation too of my past ex-girlfriend and we didn't meet at all. We've just exchanging pictures so that we could see each other but in person, we haven't. But when my present girlfriend, we've also started through text for 2 weeks and we decided to meet each other. We are 1 year and 1 month now.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
My relationship started with a text, and i can say that more on our 4years and a half being together we lived and fell in love through text. We see each other though but its not everyday since we live in different cities and now he is working in another country. I can say that i have found true love in my lover now because despite the distance we have been strong and we both know that we really love each other. Although i can say that when we will be physically together, adjustments will be hard for both.
@rage35 (344)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
Hello gaiza! Knowing that you've felt in love through text for 4 years? I think it is very difficult for you although having long distance relationship isn't a hinder for a good relationship since there are technologies that will connect you from people from place to place.
@hushi22 (4928)
13 Jan 11
i never experienced such, but i think that is possible. some of my friends fell in love thru texting. that is if the texters didn't feign in their personalities.
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
17 Jun 11
I used to text a lot when I was single and exchange messages with those I dated then. It really is nice to receive sweet nothings from them. We usually would stay up all night texting. There was this one particular guy that I constantly exchanged messages and I got used to it and I think I did fell for him. But he just can't let go of his ex so I let him go.
@louie847 (350)
• Philippines
23 Jan 11
Well, i think at first, it would be difficult for someone to instantly fall in love just by merely texting. Maybe it would be possible if the two of them would meet and have a date. After being together, there could be a chance for them falling for each other.
@BambiDee (114)
10 Jan 11
Well, I have seen couples who started as text mates only and I even have some friends who had a relationship which started with just texting. I think it depends if the feeling is really true and mutual.
@rage35 (344)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
I agree with you Bambi. I am also one of these few people who engage in this kind of relationship.
@buli23 (550)
• India
28 Jan 11
I think that we can get our love through phone and texting. I know one of my fried who fall in love through phone. They got marred about three year ago and they are living happily. So I think it is possible to get true relation with phone and texting. I have made many good friend through texting.
• India
11 Jan 11
Hello I think you can never fall in love with someone through texting. to fall in love you need to know that person very well and you can never know what the other person is really like over the phone. But yes if you are already in a relationship specially long distance then that relationship can get stronger by speaking regularly over the phone and texting. you can always say those special things to your partner while texting which you hesitate to say while personally meeting them.
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
Having a relationship through texting may be possible but finding true love might not be possible. Texting like brings out someone different from who you realy are. Especially for people who really don't get to socialize with other people in person or who don't talk much, get to express more of their emotions and ideas in texting. There are also other people pretending to be someone who they are not to buy the feelings of other people. So in this sense, it's just like a make believe world wherein the two of are so in love but in reality you are not. I once had a relationship through texting, it ended for months only. Because when the relationship is only limited to texting and caling each other and never seeing each other, there will come a time that the two of you will be bored. Like you don't get to do a lot of things on texting that's more exciting than being together in person. So relationships can happen but true love is definitely not on the agenda.