They're terrible people

By eM
@eLsMarie (4346)
Philippines
January 10, 2011 6:31am CST
Last year, I've met some group of individuals in school. At first, they treated me like a princess. They've explained to me some stuffs about the requirements that our instructor is going to give us. Last month, it seems like they have changed. I'm already the one who's so busy doing our projects. They even scolded for making a lousy paper though I know that I was doing the right thing while they weren't doing anything. I feel like I was cheated.
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8 responses
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
"Nothing is permanent in this world except change" We all know that there is no permanent in this world,especially when we speak of people.from time to time they change.it is all because of the environment around them.environment or people around you,plays a vital role in your life.just for instance,you are living in a squatter area,so you are expected to act unprofessional,because you are surrounded by uneducated people.even though you are professional,you still get their attitude.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
It's only a minimal time and they've already changed a lot. How could they be so mean?
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
10 Jan 11
Unfortunately, people do and say mean and nasty things, bullying, rudeness, etc.., but we have to rise above that behavior. We want to keep our positive attitudes, that someday...we will all be in a place of peace. I have had people pass through my life like that too, it hurts that they can be so cruel and uncaring, but we just have to move on, forgive and forget is the popular saying.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
11 Jan 11
Honestly, I don't have any problems if I do all the work, it's just that they're just so abusive. I won't forget what they did to me. It takes time to to forgive someone who's deserving of that forgiveness.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
14 Jan 11
hi, definitely yes, they cheated you, because you are the one who only work for that project, maybe they are only used you and abused your weaknesses.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
Yes... It made me feel like I'm the greatest fool in the world.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
11 Jan 11
people do change over time and i had learn that as i grow up... that's why i stop putting my expectations on people and only to God... He is the only One who will never disappoint me as He never changes and He always keep His promises... i had ever experienced what you experience now and i know how you feel... my suggestion is, stay away from those kind of people and do not get intimidated by them... it is not worth getting upset just because of those type of people... take care and have a nice day...
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
I'm trying my best not to get intimidated by them. They were my classmates so it's hard to stay away from them.
@jhartana (1084)
• Australia
11 Jan 11
People do change from time to time. I think they only try to play around with you by doing something nice. If I were you I just don't care at all and as long as I done the right thing then there is nothing for me to worry about. I don't care if they brag me or criticise or making fun of me, just be myself and start thinking something positive.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
I'm afraid that I might lose patience and literally hurt them. I have a great fist. I can jab them anytime I want.
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
11 Jan 11
That's why it's difficult to trust people nowadays. They are kind to you because they think you can be useful to them but after that, they don't want anything to do with you. I hate being abused by others and being used. So i have stop trusting others. Yes i still try to be polite but the moment they try to treat me like trash, i fight back and give them their own dose of medicine.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
Now, I'm having a sort of sweet revenge to them. They were trying to be good at me again because I refuse to include them in our project. I think I'm turning to be so polite now.
@singup (666)
• Malaysia
11 Jan 11
you weakness make more sadness my advice just ignor them until they got a feeling. if they change ok thats what they did but ??? how about you are you going to change or not ?
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
Hello singup... I'm sorry but I'm getting confused with your post.
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
For one thing, they PRETENDED to be nice to you until they got you strangled. i think this in fact that we shouldn't easily trust NICE people from the start, make a good conversation but do not trust them.people change and pretend for some reason, this has always been that way. luckily for me at least they were honest enough to put me down from the start. i think facing a group of pretenders would be the worst thing for me.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
11 Jan 11
They're really the worst ones. When I asked my friend about those group of friends, he told me that they're only gonna make requirements only if final exam is near. Sometimes, it's bad to be so good.
• Australia
10 Jan 11
there are always existing some people who want to exploit other people, and then if they don't have value, they want abandon them.obviously, there is no constant relationship in people's communication. to some extend,your value is the key factor in this relationship and it is enable to judge whether they would like to make friend with you.So you have to measure this and find some phenomenon to identify whether they want to take advantage of you~
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
11 Jan 11
They're taking advantage of me. When I showed them my report, they were like laughing and all. It's like they were happy because I put their names on the paper though they didn't contributed anything. I'm glad that I did not submit yet our report. I'm going to delete their names on it.