What if Marriage Contract has expiration date ?..
By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39140)
Philippines
January 15, 2011 6:15am CST
It's a little bit funny
...this thought in my mind...
Well,i saw my driver's license and check on the expiration date.
And,it reminds me of few ID's and documents that requires renewal.
So,i pull out my miscellaneous files and... dang!!!
Hmmmmnnn....why does marriage contract doesn't have expiration date.
Then, we are given prerogative whether to renew or now...
oppppssss....just a funny thinking...
NOTE:
DO NOT TAKE SERIOUSLY OK?
POSTS AND HAVE FUN 
...this thought in my mind...
Well,i saw my driver's license and check on the expiration date.
And,it reminds me of few ID's and documents that requires renewal.
So,i pull out my miscellaneous files and... dang!!!
Hmmmmnnn....why does marriage contract doesn't have expiration date.
Then, we are given prerogative whether to renew or now...
oppppssss....just a funny thinking...
NOTE:
DO NOT TAKE SERIOUSLY OK?
POSTS AND HAVE FUN 
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20 responses
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
hello lazette,
It must/should be sacred,but reality is,do couples who made their vows knows the meaning of it?..not every couple right?
There are couples that wrote their own vows...have the grandest wedding in town,and ended up having affair with others after a year or so.
Yes,plausible enough for the cheated party and good enough for the cheaters to think twice.
Thanks for your response and have a great Sunday

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@boomboompow (98)
• Paraguay
16 Jan 11
well i think that would be a great idea. hahaha..
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
hello boom,
That i think as well
...
imagine how couple look at each other while holding their marriage contract and thinking whether to renew it or not
(whooohohoho)
Thanks for your response and have a great day always.
Welcome to mylot and enjoy mylotting
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imagine how couple look at each other while holding their marriage contract and thinking whether to renew it or not
(whooohohoho)
Thanks for your response and have a great day always.
Welcome to mylot and enjoy mylotting
@sender621 (14889)
• United States
15 Jan 11
I think it would bring a lot of unneeded complications to the marriage relationship if we had expiration dates. I don't know how many marriages would be renewed because a marriage would expire. Let'[s hope this is one contract that will never expire.2 people like this
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
hello sender,
That's the sad part of reality in marriage life.
Thu it's a contract that doesn't had expiration and shouldn't expire,but reality is,a lot of marriages ended.
Grand or royal weddings ended either.,whilst people who are living together without the wedding vows lived happily ever after ('i've known a few who doesn't believed in marriage,yet living a happily with their partner.)
Ever married couple wish it to lasts ,but they're the one who break the rules of their wedding vows.
Thanks for your response and have a great Sunday

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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
15 Jan 11
Hi Jaiho,
That could be beneficial for some and disastrous for some... For me it would be a disaster... I would not want to let go and she will not want to renew... or I would not want to renew and she would want to renew... either case a misery to happen...
Better we stayed without the contractual marriage
@deriellevc73 (982)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
hello jaiho2009!
If marriage has expiration date, well, that would just be simply fantastic. I would not have to wait and save for the expenses i will incur for the annulment of my marriage. I married the wrong person, and we ended up separated. It would have been fun if marriage has an option to renew or not when the expiration date comes. It would save us a lot of expenses but not heartache, lol.
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
hello derielle,
I like that... "it would save us a lot of expenses but not heartache, lol."
one more thing is...it will give the real essence of equality of men and women.(in everything...men are fine to flirt ugh!!! while women are condemned for doing so where is justice huh? )hahaha just kidding...but it's true.
Sorry to read that you are also a victim of love (wrong person)
Wish you will find the right soon.
Thanks for your response and have a great Sunday

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@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
Hello my friend LOL
you know why marriage contract has no expiration because may be your are the first one not to renew it ha ha ha.. Seriously because if it is, the sacred of marriage might be abused for some others. Anyway I hope not to be happened what your thinking because some will be surely abused that.
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
hello friend,
Thats a big YES
Maybe some will abuse it...and how about those husband that hurting their wives physically and mentally..isn't it abusing too?
There is always two sides in a coin...i wish to toss a coin and hope it will stand
Thanks for your response and have a great Sunday
Maybe some will abuse it...and how about those husband that hurting their wives physically and mentally..isn't it abusing too?
There is always two sides in a coin...i wish to toss a coin and hope it will stand
Thanks for your response and have a great Sunday
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
16 Jan 11
I think for some.. it starts with an expiration date.
Sadly , I have a friend who starts off with the idea . well if it
doesn't work out there is always divorce.
I don't think anyone should go into marriage with that attitude.
Yes Divorce exists but it should be used so casually
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
16 Jan 11
I think society as a whole does no respect marriage
Look at the idols and celebrities that people so adore
Most stars and celebrities have married and divorced at least twice.
There are some, however, who stay in it for the long run.
Sad state things are in the Married life.
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
That's right...and one more thing is...
if well known personality re-married twice or even thrice (some even married more)
the society never condemned them...
but,if ordinary people in the neighborhood get separated and find another love to live with...he/she looks as if he/she committed the worst crime.(shuckz with the society's thinking)
Yes,sad things happens in married life...same thing with happiness.
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
hello francis,
That would be better,never get marry unless sure to commit and compromise a lifetime relationship.
That is what marriage vows meant for.
But sadly..couples who made those vows doesn't respect and value the sacredness of marriage.
Thanks for your response and have a great day


@Sreekala (34312)
• India
17 Jan 11
Hello dear sister,
I think that is the specialty of the marriage contract, there is no expiration date. However, if you want to finish it then you can do any time according to your wish and will, at least no need to wait for the last date of expiry. 

I think that is the specialty of the marriage contract, there is no expiration date. However, if you want to finish it then you can do any time according to your wish and will, at least no need to wait for the last date of expiry. 

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@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
27 Jan 11
if marriage contract has expiration date, then i guess we have already solved a lot of marriages right now. i know there are lots of them that never worked out. so if it didn't worked out, they have the option not to renew it.
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
30 Jan 11
hello neil,
One good thing also,it won't be hard to explain to kids if things went wrong.
And,the broken family image will never be an issue.
There are advantages and disadvantages...but better than keeping a relationship that's like living in hell.
How's life now dear brother...


@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
24 Mar 11
It would be no good if there is an expiration date in a marriage. Marriage is a serious committment, there is no expiration.
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
28 Mar 11
hello ivy,
Yes marriage is a serious thing and could not be considered as game.
But for some people who get's divorced and then re-marry again and did same thing over and over,i think it's better to have an expiration date.
Just one of my funny thinking (hahaha)
thanks for your response and have a good day

@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
18 Jan 11
If the marriage contract has an expiration. There are many broken home or family around. Because husband or wife..thinking not to renew when they see something handsome or something sexy...that's a kind of funny!
Well, marriage contract not have an expiration date. Because under our laws: Marriage contract cannot be stipulated and no law should be created to distract the sanctity of marriage...
As the says: Marriage is a special contract of permanent union between a man and a woman entered into in accordance with law for the establishment of conjugal and family life...
As the law says. It is a permanent union and no subject for stipulation...
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@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
18 Jan 11
Yup! It's nice to see you again here!
Well, that is true. But if there is an expiration date. Husband and wife may force to do something against each other. There is no sanctity of marriage if that happen because marriage is a mere contract and there is no guarantee beyond it...
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
18 Jan 11
yes..because...with or without contract...if couples wants to stay faithful and there is love and respect...the relationship will lasts forever.
Marriage contract is no guarantee...but LOVE alone and faith in GOD!
@hexebella (1136)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
That would be amazing....it would have saved me lots of money as I paid so much for my marriage annulment. My country doesn't have divorce which could be a lot cheaper and marriage annulment costs too much. So if you don't have money and you got separated, no chance at all except to be an adulteress LOL! It's not a funny thinking, it should be introduced in our society. But the lawyers will protest as they will lose business.
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
hello hex,
Precisely,one reason why in some countries divorce is not allowed becoz lawyers will lose earnings.
Well...it's just law being enforced for divorce,legal separation or annulment.
but the truth is,once a married person got annulled or legal separation/divorced and re-married again...does the three option (annulment/separation/divorce) justify the legalization?
But not a bad idea either...rather than staying in a relationship that feels like living in hell.
I agree it's not funny,but reality.
But let's accept that,some people will find it immoral (hmmm...let the righteous stand and speaks their mind )
sometimes those who claims to be perfect are the immoral ones
Thanks for your response and sharing your view.
Have a great Sunday
Thanks for your response and sharing your view.
Have a great Sunday
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@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
3 Apr 11
We don't have contrant marriage in our family or culture, naturally no expiration date of any kind, i see this date over food stuff, medicines etc,
mine was an arranged marrige that too in 1966, i was just 16
i know some girls guys live together, have kids but no legal marriage, might be some kind of contract?
Thanks for this funny discussion Jai
Happy posting, cheers.
Namastey.
Kalyani
Happy posting, cheers.
Namastey.
Kalyani
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
3 Apr 11
hello again dear,
Yes funny thought came into my mind due to this modern age,where young generation seems to play with married life.
Some youngsters married and after a month get divorced,so,i guess what if there should be a law for marriage contract expiration (hahaha)
thanks again for sharing your views dear and...you are so young when you get married,young and a sunder bride i bet

@Sydalg242811 (380)
• Baguio, Philippines
17 Mar 11
halu jaiho,
lol
it's funny,but it's true.if there is a renewal for it,i will not renew lol
yes we have to be our selves we should not hypocrite,we should face the facts,that, what if you are not both happy in your relationship,and you do all your best to save your relationship,and it doesn't work at all,are you still going to pursue it,for what?for the seek of your family?for the seek of your children?but look a small quarrel becomes big deal,because there's no love and can't understand each one opinion,the home will not become home anyway,would you allow these situations inside your house and in front of your children?.there's no peace at all.
but if you would accept the reality,everything will gonna be fine..
thanks to this topic...take care jai..
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
17 Mar 11
hello Syd,
I knew You and I will be celebrating if "marriage contract" has expiration date.
We might throw a "VICTORY PARTY" HAHAHAAHHAHAH
We might throw a "VICTORY PARTY" HAHAHAAHHAHAH
@Sydalg242811 (380)
• Baguio, Philippines
24 Mar 11
halu Jaiho,
yapz let's go jai...lol
take care
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@Loen210 (1540)
• United States
17 Jan 11
I was just talking about that with someone the other day.
I wouldn't be surprised, especially sinc ehumans are living longer lives now, and divorce is unfortunately rising like crazy.
Perhaps in future, it will be something like 2-4 stages in life as in: "adult years" "senior years" "3rd age life" Ha ha.
Or "30th anniversary, 50, and 75!"
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
hello loen,
Not bad at all...by stages
Nice idea for contract expiration(hahaha)
Thanks for sharing your views and have a good day always
Nice idea for contract expiration(hahaha)
Thanks for sharing your views and have a good day always
@maharlikah (1045)
• Philippines
10 Feb 11
Hahaha, but I wish there was Jane... So that, it will not be very expensive when a couple decided for an annulment. We are living near the palace of justice here in our coity and I often hear cases like that.
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
28 Mar 11
hello my dear Belle,
Where have you been...i missed you here in mylot...please be active here for once (hehehe)
forget this expiration just be active and it will be fine



@starlight_starbright (810)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
Thinking about it? It sounds silly but I guess I would want it to be considered by our law makers. Even without it, people practice bigamy and adultery here in the Philippines. They don't even bother to get any legal settlement before reentering another marriage. As you may know, Philippines is made up of Islands and most records are localized. Even though we have the National Statistics Office, an agency that safe keeps citizen's records, there is no way of knowing if someone has a previous marriage without checking it out with the NSO which most people don't think of doing so before getting married. Hence, if marriage contract has expiration then maybe couples can reconsider or talk things out whether they would renew it or not. I like the thought of it! 
@sardonyx777 (450)
• Philippines
20 Jan 11
Hello jaiho,
Actually, my mind also plays on this idea but i do believe in the sacredness of marriage vows. It is not only a vow between two couple who fall madly inlove with each other rather it is a divine ritual between Almighty God and the lovers who became one in the eyes of God and the people after receiving the vows of marriage.
Although we commonly think that it is only a contract,a piece of paper signed by two consulting adult but because of the divine intervention whom our faith gave power into it then it mustn't be treated as an ordinary contract at all. This is the exquisiteness of marriage and the hardship if one fall into the wrong person.
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@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
hello jaiho,
In a Catholic country marriage is a sacred one as last year one lawmaker proposed a bill regarding marriage renewals but the Priests, Catholic organizations and other people are against this kind of law.
On my own opinion i don't know if i will go for yer or no maybe come what may i need too look first for someone before i can decide which side i am
.
happy posting

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happy posting

@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
bhabycatch,
It's not the religion that matters,...who are those having grand weddings and ended up with broken marriages anyway...aren't they Catholic?
Not to mention those well known personality /celebrities..having grand weddings of the year...still ended up re-marrying again...and saying the same vows?
That depends on how people value a relationship,respect each other and love their partner with the real essence of the word LOVE.
Yup...better get married first and say your opinion...find a groom now while supply lasts
love yah
love yah
@atprudente6 (673)
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
LOL. It would be like a sword of two edges. Some people will find it benificial, while some other will find it breaking the holiness of matrimony. As we all know, when we marry someone, it is a lifetime contract, except for some valid ground for separation (even the bible has mention some ground for separation) below:
1. Either one of the party is mentally incapable
2. Either one of the party endangered the life of his/her spouse (due to continous beating or life threatening actions)
3. Either one of the party has committed adultery.
When any of these criteria has been met, then the couple can annul their marriage.
When it comes to financial situation, would it be more expensive if marriage contract has an expiration. Let us consider this, let say that the marriage contract is valid for 10 years and you and your spouse decided that you still want to be with each other, then you need to "renew" the contract and "pay for it again". Let say that you and your spouse want to spend your lifetime with each other, then you need to "renew" the marriage contract every 10 years and and "par for it again"
Just my thought, No harms meant. Happy day.
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
hello atprudente,
Expensive marriage contract...i never thought of this,it's not that costly i know,unless you will go though the whole process of wedding (entourage/reception and everything)
Well,with all the grounds you've written...of course those are reasons why i came to this thinking.
If there is an expiration date,would it serve as a warning for a husband/wife not to commit adultery/bigamy,not to hurt physically as well (disregard the mentally incapability that's out of question)
Thanks for sharing your views and have a great day.
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