Is it true that Women Who Married.....?

@rifnee (1713)
Indonesia
January 16, 2011 9:39am CST
Is it true that women are demanding and want to get married and have kids because of the desire to obtain the status as a "Perfect Woman"?
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9 responses
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 11
rifnee..first i suggest you, dont flood indonesia interest with another topic is not relevant topic with indonesia..it make many of us confuse.. it`s about wedding or woman interest...so place with the right place too..OK.. second, in our culture yes ....our culture agree wth your said...
• Indonesia
16 Apr 11
I strongly agree with adhyz, this discussion is not suitable for the interests of Indonesia. You must consider the interest in accordance with the discussion that you create.
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
25 Jan 11
Hi, i think most women got married because, you know, most of us want to have a family and enjoy the happiness of life. Perfect woman not means married women. But most females try to be a perfect mother and wife in the family.
@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
25 Jan 11
I think not all women think like that, there are many partial women have thoughts like that but there are also different-minded
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 11
Indeed there are women who like it, it was already a phenomenon for women. especially women who just want to be a happy herself. Women who you mentioned above, is a woman who will never be satisfied with one partner, will never be satisfied with life, and no matter how how to look more glamorous. Children are a means to get more money from someone. in court, if the couple have a child, that child will get the funds for her school and activities. Of the few women I know, and including the type of woman on top, the money or fund the child will be put into his account and used to beautify themselves anymore. Children? she loves herself more than her son. Yes. Because I'm a woman, I want to get married and have kids. But not because want to be 'Perfect Woman', but wanted something special. Something myself and all the people I love. And child. No human is perfect, that no woman is perfect and no man is perfect. Because imperfection is created by God, why do humans have in pairs, so that they are perfect. Husband Wife perfected, vice versa. Because if, man was created perfect whole, human beings would not need someone else to live. For women, perfection it feels when becoming a mother. Although many now who do not want to have children, because they do not want ugly body. But for women who may not want to be 'Perfect Woman', gave birth to it are the moments that awaited. We can give everything for the child will be born, we can tell anything for her, we can keep it. Moreover, more beautiful than that? There are women who do not want to be a mother. But for herself, she should give birth. So many children are now displaced, because her mom, more like social gathering, than the lessons he taught school. There are also many men who want children, because children who would continue the family name. My mother was divorced from my father, for since the beginning of marriage, my father did not want children. Every pregnant, my mom forced abortion. From the beginning of marriage, not funded and domestic violence was common for them. My brother had a heart attack, as they often cursed. That's why my mother decided to divorce, the husband can not be changed anymore.
• Indonesia
20 Jan 11
Perfect it is the best among the best. Perfect inside, also perfect on the outside. That is, if its beautiful outside, it must also be beautiful. If the outside it looks with kindness, in it should not be hypocritical, should be filled with goodness. In conclusion: Outside and inside, should be equivalent to goodness.
• Indonesia
20 Jan 11
Perfection of a woman's point of view is relatively dependent on each person's essence is the perfect woman is a pretty good woman's face and his heart. So in my opinion, nothing to do with a marriage, many bad examples of the failure of women in marriage.
@LaDeBoheme (2004)
• United States
16 Jan 11
Sounds a little medieval to me. Here in the States anyway. I am a widow, but have no kids (my choice), and in spite of these discrepancies, I think I'm perfect!
@Catana (735)
• United States
16 Jan 11
I've never even heard of such an idea. Why would anybody even want to be a "Perfect Woman?" Women marry for all sorts of reasons, and sometimes it has nothing to do with having children. There are plenty of married couple who have decided not to have kids. As for being perfect, there's no such thing. Certainly, being married and having children wouldn't make anyone perfect. A good marriage is hard work. Raising children is hard work. Any woman who's serious about her marriage has more important things on her mind than being perfect.
@lazette (216)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
Wow, that's the first I've heard of that. The only reason I know why women want to get married and have kids is because for me, that's a woman's ultimate happiness. It's not a matter of being "perfect", but rather having completed one of the purposes in life: to live with the one you love and to let your love bear fruit. That's for me at least.