You cant stand your friends NEW GUY, would you tell her?

Philippines
January 16, 2011 12:16pm CST
Sometimes as friends we respect each other's opinion, but did it happened to you that you have a friend and you can't stand her new guy, do you tell her or forever hold it to yourself? what would you do and say?
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5 responses
• China
17 Jan 11
Maybe I would hold it to myself and decrease the chance to meet the guy. Since everyone has his own interest, I can not bear a person does not mean the guy has nothing good, and maybe it is just my friend's type. But if we are so close and I know for sure the guy my friend is contacting with is really not so good in his character, maybe I will remind her gently about it.
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
17 Jan 11
I would probably have to tell my friend that i didn't like her new guy. i don't think this is something I could ho;d back. i would just have to hope my friend would understand. I would love to be proven wrong, but if i didn't like the guy, there would have to be a good reason for it.
@joystick (1680)
16 Jan 11
I would say that it is her choice if she wants to be with the guy, even though you do not like him.As long as my friend was happy that would be all that i really cared about.I think that it is best not to say anything, as she may also think that you are jealous.
• United States
16 Jan 11
Any dear friend of mine deserves for me to place my opinions. As what kind of friend would that make me if I kept that a secret and felt indifferent to her boyfriend while we hung out, and or I continued to avoid outings so that I would not come across him. Ultimately it is my friends decision as to what to do with my opinion, and as a good friend I would have to respect her decisions and trust that she would do the right thing, also to be there for her if I am proved correctly.
@smileonstar (4013)
• United States
16 Jan 11
If my good friend, then I would tell her how I feel and how the guy really is... but if she is just friend friend... then I just in ignore it.