1, 2 , 3 step to make your girl friend / boy friend trust you and love you

@spencari (265)
Indonesia
January 17, 2011 8:33am CST
will you share your tips how to make your girl or man love and trust you, sometimes hard to run relationship between us (man and women) why because there are several reason... or any argument on both side.. is there any good mechanism or tips to make your lover trust and love you
3 responses
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
I don't know... I haven't done listing the steps on how to make my boyfriend trust and love me. One thing's for sure, remember the golden rule -- "Don't do anything stupid if you don't want your lover doing stupid things against you." You really don't want to hurt the one you love. If it hurts him/her I guess white lies wouldn't be bad, but if you're cheating, that's a big NO NO. Sometimes when things go wrong, we need to swallow up our pride before it gets worse. Especially when you're in an argument, you have to compromise to make him/her feel that he/she is important to you. Moreover, you need to accept him/her for what and who he/she is... To make your love feel comfortable and at ease whenever you're around... ^_^
@spencari (265)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 11
thanks a lot for your respond, just one remember one thing " golden rule" it will make our relationship easy
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
Indeed it's easy... but when you're in a relationship, worse things do happen sometimes because man and woman are both different individuals. Most cases, men are tempted to cheat against women, while women are mostly fickle-minded who thinks too much against their lover. When golden rule exists, it keeps the balance between both individuals. Moreover, when differences hinder each other, both of them have to meet halfway to keep and save the love and trust that they have built for each other.
@uath13 (8207)
• United States
17 Jan 11
Simple, put them before yourself. If you can do that there's no question.
@spencari (265)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 11
well my friend may be one of us do know how to do,,, hopefully you have the best one
• Philippines
18 Jan 11
The best thing to make your boyfriend or girlfriend trust you is to be honest with him/her and never do things secretly. And to make him/her love you is to be yourself and take away your pride. In my relationship, when my boyfriend and I fight, it would never take days or even a day for it to be resolved because we are the kind of people who have high levels of pride. When we fight, we talk it out right away and find solutions to our problems. So good communication is also important and understanding each other's differences.