Going out again with my ex --- after 10 years!

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So my first boyfriend and I are going out again. Well I don't know how to classify what we're doing, if we're just hanging out like buddies, or dating. We were together for just less than a year last 2001. But we've been very good friends ever since. We've been close since we were 9 years old. We got together after high school but broke up because we wanted different things. We weren't cool with the break up at that time but I think friendship prevailed so we talked things over and were good friends again. Don't get me wrong. We hang out a lot especially because we have the same circle of friends. We go out to eat, movies, etc. I was even his confidante when he was with his girlfriend before. Our friends always tease us, because we're still close. But I never though of it as something romantic. We're friends. Period. But lately, we've been talking nonstop again. Up to the wee hours in the morning. Even while he's at work. He even told me to inform him when I'll be back in Manila. And when he's here in the province, he would always ask me out, to dinner or to have coffee or to just hang out wherever. I don't want to sound assuming. And I don't want to put malice in what he's doing. Mainly because we were like this before. Although there was a lag because of work and school. But now, things are as I described. So I don't know... I don't want to ask because I don't want to get embarrassed when he tells me this is nothing. And IF EVER he's trying to get back with me, I don't know if that's what I want. Things didn't work out the first time because we wanted completely different things in life. It's different when you're just friends with someone and things are like that.... Hmmm... Just sharing. Have a good day my dear myLotters.