What Should I Do When I Am in Age Among 26-35?
@summerrainylily (256)
China
January 19, 2011 9:36pm CST
In my opinion, the time age among 26-25 is really important time in our whole life, I don't want to regret or feel sorry for myself when the golden time passed. So i would like to set up my blueprint and carry it out.
Time flies, 10 years passed, I am not a teenager any more, when I recall my life, I would say, if the clock back, I can come back to 10 years before, i would do something different, or do something in different way......However, nothing can be changed. Hence, what i can do is to cherish TODAY.
It doesn't matter you are a man or woman, no matter what is your age, I hope you can share with me your idea, if you are a man, i hope to see what you want a lady to be in this period, your dream wife or suggestion to a lady like that? If you are a girl like me, i would like you share with me your blueprint; if you have the 10 year precious experience, I really eager to see your own idea, anything you proud? anything need to improve? any suggestion?
Any response will be highly appreciated!
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11 responses
@knicnax (2233)
• Philippines
20 Jan 11
I'm not yet in that age, but I plan to be able to stand up on my own two feet by that time. In our culture, people live with their parents until they marry, but I don't plan to do that. I plan to move out as fast as I could, but I'll live not in a rented apartment or condo, but in my own apartment or condo. I'm planning to save up so I could buy a rent to own condo in 2 years time.
I'm not planning on marrying at all. I want to have a stable life. I'm not crossing out the idea of marriage, but I'm fine if I don't get married at all, nor have any kids.
I plan to work hard and by the age of 27, be able to take-up law. It is my dream to become a lawyer, but I still need to save up for it.
I also plan to be able to put up a business by 26 and make that business up and running for at least 10 years.
@summerrainylily (256)
• China
20 Jan 11
Dear knicnax, thanks. Time till I graduated I also have similar idea as you. As time goes on, something changed. Something don't like what in our mind. Anyway, good to expirence something, good to know the real world. Good luck to you!
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@dollar3235 (2062)
• India
20 Jan 11
I think, you meant, age between 26 to 35.
You should do the following:
1. Get a good job and work as hard as you can.
2. Make sure that you don't waste time in finding so called love. (If you are successful, it will come your way)
3. Eat sweets, chocolates and ice-cream.
4. Play video games.
5. Try to help elders in your family and be as responsible as you can in your family.
6. Read motivational books. (It's very important, same as a charger for your cell phone)
7. If you get some time in your daily life, go to gym.
8. Get a good music system and enjoy.
9. Buy surprise gifts for your younger siblings, cousins to make them happier.
10 Be an active member of myLot and share your experiences.
In one line, generally, we are dependent on our family for first 20-25 years of our life. In any family, there are people sacrificing their own priorities for the children of their family, that's because they love them more than anything else. One can not return the same to them but yes, one can try to make them as happy as they can and at the same time, it will make you happier for sure. 
@dollar3235 (2062)
• India
30 Jan 11
You're welcome, summerrainylily!
People like you, who take time to think and reply, make mylot a much better place.
@summerrainylily (256)
• China
21 Jan 11
Hi dollar3235, so nice to see your idea, thanks. :)
Right, i mean age between 26 to 35. lol
Below is my answer for your 10 suggestion:
1. You are absolutely right, I have a job and like it. Besides the job, i also studying in my spare time. Job is really important, i have to make a living myself. :)
2. You know what, in fact, my parents, relatives and friends all blame me never take it seriously, they hope i do something to search a boyfriend. hehe. My parents begin to worry about it. Maybe i should.
3. This item, I love it, these are my favorite!
4. To be honest, i never play video games. hehe, it seems not my style, I love movie. lol.
5. SURE, I WILL, AND I AM TRYING MY BEST. SO I REALIZED I AM AN ADULT NOW.
6. Yea, it is important, motivational books can offer me power. :)
7. Yes, it is important, i am doing a little everyday. Health is important.
8. It is tempting, i will try, also it is my weakness. lol.
9. Yes, it is a part of family responsiblily to take care of siblings. I will, thanks.
10. Sure, i will, as much as i could! :)
For the last words, i don't have my own family now, but i will keep it in mind. I will try to be good, to play my role well.
Best wishes to you, my friend!
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
20 Jan 11
For me all thing's is you gonna do except it if your body is able to do the thing's you want.
@summerrainylily (256)
• China
21 Jan 11
Hi ebuscat, thanks. I think it will be better if have a plan, at least, i can know what is important, i am looking forward what will be in my life. :)
@buli23 (550)
• India
20 Jan 11
I do not think that age between 25 to 26 is very important in our whole life. I think there are many state in our whole life and many role we had to play in our life. I think every role you have to play properly for your happiness. I am a man of 28 years and I got married 3 years ago. I was determined from the very beginning of my life that I want marry that girls who love me and I will never marry that girls whom I love and now I am very happy with my wife. We share every problem between us. I think you have to determined at first who live you more and think he or she will be your dream girls or man.
@summerrainylily (256)
• China
21 Jan 11
Hi buli23, thanks for your comment. :)
I said age between 26-35 is important in our life, i mean in this priod, one begin to play several roles. Son or daugher, have responsible for one's parents; husband or wife, need to make a happy family; father or mother, need to take care of kid; employee, one must work hard to support family.
It is lucky to have a right person in one's marrige, or one must lead an unhappy life, it will be a deep destory to one's whole wife, i can see many of the bad marriage and feel sorry for them.
I am trying to find the right person in my life.
Thanks, have a nice day!
@fantasydream (5)
• China
20 Jan 11
I'm 26years old . I have had the same problem as you . In my opinion
1. we should learn everything more and more as we can . Salary is not very improtant .
2. To help people who need help .
3. Eat sweets, chocolates and ice-cream.
@summerrainylily (256)
• China
21 Jan 11
Hi fantasydream, thanks. 1, sure, we need to learn as much as we can. However, as time goes by, you will find salay also important, trust me. :)
2. Yes, we should.
3. This one, i do it perfect, all are my favorite. :)
Have a nice day!
@catwarior123 (2)
• Philippines
20 Jan 11
you should a great job job or work then find a girl and mary her.
@summerrainylily (256)
• China
21 Jan 11
Hi thanks catwarior123, yea, i haave a job, but i am a girl. :)
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
21 Jan 11
Hi, my young friend, yes, this period of time is very important. Actually every parts of our life is important. That is the reason we often regret. When we are in 20s, we regret we have not done well in teens. While when we are in 30s, we regret that having not done well in 20s.
So as you said, what we should do is to cherish every day from now on. I am a female and i am much older than you. So i think i can share my experience and feeling with you.
When you are in your 26-35 period. You should try to find your Mr.right and have one or two healthy kids. That is the most important thing. And when you choose your job place, you should be very careful. Take everything into consideration. Because it will decide where you will spend your most time and where you will build your family. It is not so easy to change later. So when you start, try to have a good start.
@JNAbejero_C (62)
• Philippines
20 Jan 11
I'm now a college student. when I was in elementary I'll always ask my self what will i be when i grow up? Where do I study High school? also college?
When I'm already in high school I remember that day and I told my self Oh... how many year pass by i told my self where do I gonna study high school and Its just like yesterday. And now I'm already in college I realize that time pass so quickly Its like yesterday i was little dreaming what would I be when i grow up.
and now here I am having the answer of my long ago question. I'd like to have stable job so that i can help my parents and Wanting to own a business and have a healthy and peaceful life.
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
20 Jan 11
Well I can relate since I'm within the age bracket. When I was younger, I somehow know what my life would be when I'm older. I'd finish school, get married, have kids. My life has been pretty laid out for me. I was close to panicking when I was about 25 and still unmarried. I got married the following year, when I was 26. So from the time we got married until today, our goal is to save and invest to prepare for our children's future and for our retirement. It is really work,save and invest for us now while we are still able.
It is nice to have goals for yourself, just don't get depressed if you are not able to achieve them because we really don't know what life has in store for us. What we want right now may not be what we want in the future. It is okay to make mistakes along the way as long as we learn from them. You are correct cherish what you have today. I wish you the best in life!
@catchup (6)
• China
21 Jan 11
hi
it's a very good topic to think about. i am 29 yrs old now,and i do agree with you that this 1o yrs is the most important period in my life. do not say every year is the same important,cause you physical situationn is changing every day,that will influent your decision and action as well.well, then we gotts to do the very important stuff in such beautiful ages, work harder,experience fun as much as you could,earn much money as youcan,and be mature.and keep fit, no matter what, find the right way to live,and always be sexy and smart.
@vickytagaylo (1)
• Philippines
21 Jan 11
hi there! just to share some of my thoughts. to begin with,my last 10 years of life has been a rewarding years. i started going to places i only dreamed of as a litte girl. been able to go around our country, visiting places i could only imagined. offcourse, i got the chance to visit other countries as well. i've been promoted from my previous job, earned and saved some. met my friends whom i shared some of my memorable journeys in life. resigned and got a new job now. but now, i am thinking of finding a more secured future. by finding a secured job, secured partner in life. i guess we all have some fair share of some happy go lucky time in our lives. and when we're finished with it, comes the thinking of how to have a more secured life ahead. whether to have a family of our own, having our own house, business and etc. the latter years you've mentioned, that's early to mid thirties years gives me the inkling feeling of what i really wanted in my life. seriously i've been giving a thought of it for quite some time now. and praying that i will make a wise decision for that.
