Fake Friends . . .

@vhenwood (1062)
United States
November 18, 2006 9:44pm CST
Why are they so many? I've been stabbed in the back sooo many times by people who are supposed to be my friends. And I'm the kind of person that if you need my help and I can help you . . .I'll do it . . .I love my friends and always give people the benefit of the doubt. SO many times I get shafted by my so called friends. They end up walking all over me and then they get mad when I confront them about it and no longer let it happen. Being someone's friend does not allow you to use them and abuse them. Why don't people understand that? It hurts me so bad when this ish happens. I have actually and genuinly cared about these people and in turn, as a thnak you, they jsut turn around a take a big ole poop over me. WTF?!?!?! Did they not have friends growing up so therefore they don't know how to treat them??? Were they spoiled snots and had everything given to them??? Did something so catastrophic happen to them that now they just don't trust anyone and refuse to be nice?? I seriously don't understand it. I open myself and my home to my friends. They few friends I have and know are true I love with all my heart. . . and they know who they are. Ugh, I'm just going to go around and smack all the fake aholes I know. Who's with me?
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@brokentia (10396)
• United States
5 Dec 06
Hey, I'm right there with ya. I seem to always get the riends that use and abuse me. My last friend used me as a babysitter because she didn't want to be a mother. I tried to keep telling myself that she was not using me. But when I didn't hear from her for weeks and when she finally called me, it was to ask me to babysit. I finally had to stand up for myself and tell her that it was not friendship to use someone like that. Of course, it did not go over well and we are no longer friends. So, I will stick with myLot.
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@vhenwood (1062)
• United States
5 Dec 06
That's so sad . . . the poor kid . . .I bet the kid is great too
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@brokentia (10396)
• United States
6 Dec 06
The kid is a baby and she was a sweetie! I miss her loads!!!! I just feel sad for her...her mom doesn't want to be a mom.
@vhenwood (1062)
• United States
6 Dec 06
that's just sad. . . has she ever thought about adoption??/ I mean, even having one of her family members adopt her if she has any that are willing to take her and keep them together ya know?
@usmcsgtwife (4997)
• United States
27 Nov 06
Yes I know what you mean sometimes I think I am way to nice
@vhenwood (1062)
• United States
27 Nov 06
yea it sucks
• United States
7 Jul 09
thank you i freain agree i'm tired of doing all this stuff for ppl then treated bad after.
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
i totally agree with you.. i have encountered fake friends too.. i know someday fate will bring what they really deserve..
@usmcsgtwife (4997)
• United States
27 Nov 06
Yes I know what you mean sometimes I think I am way to nice