How to deal with the contradiction between friends?

China
January 25, 2011 12:50am CST
I am really cherish a friend of mine .but I think he brought me pain more often than happy.Slowly the between us is the conflict ,I don't know what to do ,how I wish I could forever be his good friend.
3 responses
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
27 Jan 11
Just try and understanding, or you could go talk to him about what you are feeling s he'll know... A nice heart to heart talk is good, it can even solve your conflict. Just be patient and sincere.
• Philippines
25 Jan 11
hi there. i think in friendship, it's just normal to have a few conflicts between the two of you. TRUST is very essential when it comes to friendship, so each one of you must be very careful not to ruin one another's trust because your friendship greatly depends on it. on you friend's side perhaps, he must have done something that caused you pain. but i think he deserves another chance. if he tries to apologize for what he has done, then give him another chance. but at that time, he has to prove himself worthy for the chance that you gave. he has to prove himself sorry for what he has done wrong. if nothing has changed and he just kept on doing the same as before, then that would be the only time for you to let go of your friendship because it does not cause both of you any good at all. keep safe and see you around!
@wwpauljd (51)
• United States
25 Jan 11
Ehhhh this is a tough one. Well you should love your friend unconditionally but in this situation I think the best thing you should probably do is talk with your friend about it. Friends are supposed be there for each other ready to help one whenever the other needs help. If your friends are only there to be happy when you are happy but gone when you're sad the. Those friends aren't really friends rather they are only using you as an opportunity to have fun. So talk to your friend and hopefully you guys figure things out.