Have you ever gotten into a CAT FIGHT? How mean can you get?

Philippines
January 25, 2011 5:56pm CST
Wow. My mom has never taught me how to be mean to other people or even try to test their temper because it could get me into trouble. But even so, time always find a way to test you, doesn't it? I got into a cat fight, and it was horrible! I was never used to it, to tell you the truth, because I am always this sort who avoids trouble or mean people. Well, that girl was petite, so somehow I had the greater advantage. But afterward? I did not feel good at all even if I won the cat fight. I'm never going to forget that event. Ever! It was.... Man! Whew. I'm glad I didn't get hurt. :(
6 responses
@jodylee (946)
• United States
26 Jan 11
I have only ever been in one true cat fight. I was about 14 and a girl that was supposed to be my friend told everyone about me and something I had done with a boy. It was not only humiliating but a very eye opening experience about trust. Anyway, I pretty much beat the crap out of the girl after school. I lived on a lake and my adrenaline was pumping so fast that I swam across the cove just to settle my nerves. I scared myself with how mad I was and I was in shock at the damage I had done. I vowed never to allow myself into a situation like that, and thankfully 16 years later I still have not had such a terrible encounter.
• Philippines
26 Jan 11
Bad memories. It's a good thing we learned our lesson. :)
@jodylee (946)
• United States
26 Jan 11
What would you have done differently in the situation for a better outcome? Knowing the better way to react is really the only way to make it not happen again. For me, I have many more things I keep to myself. People tend to use our words against us to often. I guess I have more of a guard in sensitive situations. Lessons learned are so important to making a better life.
• Philippines
27 Jan 11
Maybe it was a good thing that it happened to me so the next time around I will be more alert or guarded when it comes to trouble and know how to avoid it. I really don't like cat fights. Especially when it's getting too physical then afterward verbal. Coz when a person is really angry, he or she could say things which he or she can never take back. I learned a lesson from it. And I think I'm a better person now. :)
@koikei (206)
• Philippines
26 Jan 11
greetings! wow, congratulations on your first cat fight! LOL! i'm happy that you won, hahaha. all i can is -- violence is never the answer :)
• Philippines
27 Jan 11
Yes! You are right. Violence is never the solution. We can't correct a mistake with another mistake.
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
24 May 12
I rarely get into a cat fight, but when i do it is usually with my sister. I get into verbal fights with my friends.. I don't like to get physical since i may be sent into the principal's office.
• United States
9 Feb 11
No I have never been pushed to that limit and or allowed to go that far as I lived in a very difficult upbringing and I had Cat fought anyone, even if it was not my fault I would have been beaten to a pulp at home. It is unfortunate but I remember being provoked and remember the possible punishment at home and simply allowing the issue to go.
@Bloonana (36)
• United States
26 Jan 11
If you really had that much of a problem with getting into those kinds of situations, you simply wouldn't have done it. Don't get involved with drama, don't talk to people, don't look at people, keep to yourself. That's how to do it. You'll never get into crap like that, then go whine to strangers about it even though you could have easily avoided it.
• Philippines
26 Jan 11
Yeah. I guess it was adrenaline rush. I got into an argument with her and I walked out coz I didn't want to continue arguing. Then she tugged my hair from behind. It happened in a fast motion. All I could remember was tugging her hair back and pushed her. Errghhh.. Unpleasant memory, made me snarl. Ha ha... :)
• Suriname
10 Jul 12
When i was a young girl i always got into cat fights but i wasn't fighting for myself but was always defending my brother and sister.Mean people would like to tease them and i didn't like that so i had to fight