Why stories in our lives repeat?

Bulgaria
January 30, 2011 5:52pm CST
When you've had a bad relationship, often strikingly resemble the next and again provoke in me feels like a familiar feeling of rejection, loneliness, despair. If others have treated a certain way to me-for example, were too critical, not accept me and are directed to insult and ridicule me if i mess up constantly in conflict, and so on, even if you move to a new location, me again visitant same. In other cases remain without a job and always on my way stands the thing that prevents my success.Just things start to get better and still go down. As if some evil force has fun with it give me a little of what i want, and then i pulled him out of the hands. What happens...? Starting to think:Why not me? What is wrong? Blame fate, people around me inspire you that i have no luck that way i meant. Have you ever thought that the stories in our lives is constantly repeated? Why draw the same relations, people situations?
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@KrauseHome (34982)
• United States
2 Feb 11
Many times it can be the choices you make, and the people you choose to allow in your life as friends, etc. If you are used to this type of behavior and such it usually drains your Self Esteem some to where it is hard to get by in life and move on. It also determines who you want to be around, and even if you feel rejected it is what you have always known so you;re afraid to look elsewhere. Personally this describes the ME I once was, but thru developing a stronger Faith in god and learning to trust while being Married to a wonderful husband I have been able to move on past a lot of these. All you need to do is get a mind set you are ready to change and leave your old friends behind, and in time Great things will happen.
@trader22 (233)
• Jamaica
31 Jan 11
They repeat because we haven't learn and its a lesson that needs to be learnt. Once this happens we become wise and aware and things are looked at differently and this cause us not to repeat them.
@wilmscz (104)
• Philippines
31 Jan 11
well i guess it's because we never learned from mistakes we made before. stories in life keeps on repeating unless we learn the lessons and move forward in our lives.
• Philippines
31 Jan 11
That's the way our lives here meant to be. It's on you to motivate yourself about your fate. What you really need to think it over is that, just go on with your life, find the right way to live, and don't bother yourself for things that annoys you. You know what, you're life keeps on repeating because you are not changing your bad traits and keep on repeating the same mistakes, over and over again, that's why, you felt that life's repeating. Yes, history repeats on itself, but that's a different topic for mankind. Better, to accept God as your savior and keep your faith intact always. You can go on with your life the way you want it, and living with God in treading this world. Life is nothing without God. Hope it helps.
• China
31 Jan 11
Sometime it also happens with me. Actually some people like to underestimate others. That's why they repeat our previous life. But it doesn't a matter. Because we know what we are and how they are. So we should just ignore such a things ans should proceed in our life. Just think they are jealous on you.
@dellmore (85)
• United States
31 Jan 11
Because that's how life works . Life is one thing after another after another.