is it good to be like someone whom we idolized, sometimes?

@zills66 (1419)
Saudi Arabia
January 30, 2011 11:17pm CST
I don't know if I would want to be a great pretender of something. I know that every individual is so unique and no matter how we try to be liked a carbon copy of someone, our real self will come out. but, are you going to act tryingly just to please somebody sometimes? well, my answer is no. I would just act naturally and somebody will notice me the way i am. i think losing our real self or our identity is one of the worse thing a man could ever do. and we all know that pretending to be someone else is a lie and so a sin! in my case i was many times judged only by my cover. that is why i'm always telling to my friends that what they see and hear in me is what they get!
3 responses
@sinliong (88)
• Indonesia
31 Jan 11
That is a good idea that you have. I'm absolutely agree with you. It would be a great way of life. It is not a problem to idolize other people, but it will always better to be our self. Perhaps, we don't have many good things within, but believe it or not, there is always a thing that only our self can do it. That's what I believe.
@zills66 (1419)
• Saudi Arabia
31 Jan 11
I think that you are correct too. if we just let ourselves act naturally, our real self will shine. we do not want to be judged only by our cover. so whether we like it or not our inner self will come out!
@Messyrax (147)
31 Jan 11
i wouldnt like to be like my ' heros' i like to be myself because i cant fit to that person....if i try being like them i will be living in their shadows and waste my time trying to be what i cant be. i just use my idols as just guide to my life but not be like them
@zills66 (1419)
• Saudi Arabia
31 Jan 11
sure, even though we imitate our idols the way they talk, smile, walks, etc.. we can't be exact as what they are as we have our own identity. but, in the real sense of the word it is very hard to pretend to be someone whom we don't admire.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
31 Jan 11
Great, you have taken the attitude that should be imitated by many people. Be unto yourselves, and tell the world that you are a great person. Under no circumstances, you do not have to be someone else.
@zills66 (1419)
• Saudi Arabia
31 Jan 11
that's great. however, if we do it sometimes, be sure that that only done just for the sake of admiration and no more.