what will you do if you get in love with your bestfriend?

If you've have feelings for one of your best friends, you know how chilling it can be. Should you tell your friend you're in love with them? Even if you're certain of your feelings, you shouldn't necessarily divulge them to your friend. Don't drop the bomb under any of these situations.

If ever i fall in love with my friend (best or not doesn't matter , but a good friend is must ! ) , i would consider myself as the luckiest on planet earth (provided she accepts my love and loves me back ), but if rejected , look for another friend ! :) Jokes apart, if she could be a good friend of mine , and by any chance happens to be my partner for life, its taken for granted that we would be friends and lovers since then. Which means, no major fights, good chemistry , and the world envious of you !

Well, in this situation, the best thing that you can do is to talk to them about how you feel. Sure, things might get complicated, but I think that clearing the air is better than not doing so.

Well, to be in love with friend is really unavoidable. The facts beyond that maybe a disclosure opinion between you and your friends... Let the time being tell the story of closeness which maybe a story of love afterwards. It's not bad to tell him what you fell about because it is our right to express what is right and what the feeling dictate with us... Life is full of wonderful things and mystery. That is why should not surprise if we fall in love with our friend... Have a great day and take care

I think that if you become in love with your best friend, it is the best relationship you could possibly have. There are some risks to it though. Like, if you tell them that you are in love with them and they don't feel the same way about you. Or if you do decide to date each other and you break up, you probably won't have the same relationship that you had before. I think that if you want to tell them that you are in love with them, you should think hard about if you're ready to begin a great relationship with them, and that you could possibly destroy they friendship that you have with them now. Try to look at signs they give you about whether they may feel the same way about you. But be careful! Thanks. -Mysty

It depends. One time I feel in love with my best friend. He might have noticed but was too polite to say so nor react although I did not say it in words.I weighted the positive and negative side whether having a relationship with him that goes beyond friendship is possible and I logically find that it was not so. There are too much things about him that I find I cannot take If we take the relationship beyond its borders. So I choose the friendship.

As their best friend it is your duty to share your feelings. The last thing you want to do is bottle up such feelings, it will only fester pain and frustration in doing so. If, in the event that he/she does not feel the same way as you do, then things will become awkward, for a short while anyway. But they will return to normal again. I took that risk a long long time ago...and yet today, we are the best, and closest of friends. I would even go so far as to say that it has brought us closer in our friendship.

I think it's quite natural to fall in love with your best friend. In fact, I think this is the most logical thing to do. I once wrote an article http://beyondjane.com/relationships/friendship/how-to-choose-right-partner/ on How to Choose the Right partner. In this article I tried to establish the proposition that friendship is the foundation on which romance can sustain for long. If partners can play together, they will stay together. However when two friends fall in love with each other, they first think that they might ruin the friendship. Some people want to keep friendship separate from their love life. They're seemed to be under the impression that no one can fall far his best friend, which is a totally wrong concept.

Well i would probably tell her my feelings if i am in love with my bestfriend. Being my bestfriend, she would be the best person to understand me and to match me up. There's no point in hiding your feelings here and even if she rejects you, you both are going to remain friends after that.