How to get to know others' secret?

February 2, 2011 8:48am CST
Sometimes I just want to know other's idea under their surface, or we can call that secret. But i don't know how to get it, anybody has these experience or good method to teach me?
5 responses
@chiyosan (30205)
• Philippines
2 Feb 11
Wow. Hmm. This can have both good and bad thhngs. Secrets are not always fun to know. Some can even put you in danger.
2 Feb 11
That makes sence. But that just like an evil habit which i can't take off.
• Malaysia
2 Feb 11
Maybe you should call it off...Nevertheless, knowing secret is no fun if it happens against you, right? Cheers!
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
1 Mar 11
i can read face mimic and feel what they feel or thinking. but i can't do that if she/he is not in front of me. there is no method that i can share, i think that is a gift. or maybe you can read many book about psychology and mimic face
• Philippines
3 Feb 11
Rapport is the key. Most of the time people would just blurt out their secrets to you if you establish a rapport deep enough to make them feel comfortable around you.
@coffeebreak (17820)
• United States
2 Feb 11
Secrets or lies? I have found and repeatedly proven...that those that lie...just wait. They will squeal on themselves in due time! They forget who they lied to and what they said so in due time, they will tell the truth and not realize they are telling you different than before.
@livecenter (1138)
• Malaysia
2 Feb 11
I believe it is not good to know about the secrets of others, because they hate it when other people know it as much as you hate when others know about yours ...Nevertheless, usually what other people kept as their secret are things that make them feel inferior and not good ...I believe it is more about privacy when it comes to the skeleton in the cupboard, and you would not want to know it either...No offense, but I think you should call it off before the habit harms you in any way...