My father´s woman

@dainy1313 (2370)
Leon, Mexico
February 2, 2011 4:48pm CST
I´ve always respected my father. Even since 14 ago that lives with a younger woman than I. But yesterday I could not control me more, when he told me that this "woman" deserves my respect. I told him ALL that I think about that woman. Should I feel guilty? I am not.
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@ptower76 (1616)
• United States
2 Feb 11
Every person deserves our respect as long as they also show their respect. If you are not comfortable with your father having a younger woman, that issue is yours and you should at least tolerate the woman for your father's happiness sake. If you do something wrong then you will feel guilty. Telling him what you think is not wrong. Not respecting his decision is.
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@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
3 Feb 11
Thanks you ptower76 for your support. I do understand your point of view! Blessings!... Dainy
@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
3 Feb 11
Having a separation is not easy, I appreciate more your comment, because I see you really meant it. Yes ptower76 that´s something that worries me, and we must wait to know how much she really loves my father! Blessings again but this time, to your daughter too =)... Dainy
@ptower76 (1616)
• United States
3 Feb 11
My daughter's mother was 13 years older than i was and she had 2 daughters from a previous marriage. They did not care for me much either. It was one of the things that led to our seperation. Today their mother is living her last years alone while they are gone with families of their own. If your father's younger woman really loves him, she will care for him in his twilight years.
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• United States
3 Feb 11
I don't think you should feel guilty. You don't owe this woman anything just because she is with your father. My father changes girlfriends as often as he changes socks. They are all younger than him and only date him because they think he has money. Its very painful to watch him look like a fool but I don't bother to even get to know these women. I could care less if they like me or not. It's your father's girlfriend, not your mother. He should respect your feelings and not push the issue.
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@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
4 Feb 11
Oh honey! Taskmaster thanks you so much for your comment. I do feel relief being understood!I´ll take your advice. Blessings!... Dainy
@payout (3794)
• United States
3 Feb 11
Hey Dainy, me personally I think switching woman around married or not is just horrible and I think is just crazy. To me expressing how you really feel is very important especially when you care about the person. If you feel like this woman isnt no good for your father then hey then you have every reason to express yourself mean or nice. Your his daughter. IM sure you want the best for him. So in the end It all depends on why you did it. OUt of anger, from your heart, because you care. Because you care. It all depends. I wish you the Best :)
@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
3 Feb 11
Thanks you payout, thanks you because you can reach my inner feelings and understand me! Blessings! ... Dainy
• Philippines
3 Feb 11
No you shouldn't. In fact, that woman should be the one respecting you for being older than her.
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@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
3 Feb 11
frontvisions101 yyyyyyyyyeeeeeeessss, hehe, I hadn´t seen it for too much time. As my father´s woman, she has had some more "merits and benefits". Thanks you for your support! Blessings! ... Dainy
@klarian (49)
• Philippines
3 Feb 11
you don't need to feel guilty because in my opinion it was the woman who does not respect your family and the fact that your parents were married in the first place. that woman should understand that you do not approve of whatever affairs they are having. on the contrary, i think you deserve to be respected more.
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@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
3 Feb 11
Klarian, thanks you for your comment, you make me feel relief! Blessings... Dainy
• India
3 Feb 11
Ofcourse you shouldnt feel guilty. You told what you wanted to say. But its like if you want to live peacefully with your father and his woman, you will have to respect her. You do not have any other option since your father is on her side. Think about it.
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@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
3 Feb 11
Yes, I love to be a peacefull person, but I don´t like when people abuses of my patience, though. Thanks your for your advice, I´ll remember it! ... Blessings!... Dainy
• Philippines
3 Feb 11
For me, it's correct to say what you feel about your father's woman. After all, your part of the family, it's just right to voice out your opinion. It's okay if you don't feel guilty. That is how you feel. May be in time, when the girl has showed that she deserves your respect, then I think your relationship with her would be better.
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@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
3 Feb 11
Thanks you sheryllontok, I appreciate your comment... blessings!... Dainy
@lutphie (142)
• Indonesia
2 Feb 11
If you think the woman is bad for your family relationship, you don't need to feel guilty. Give a soft explain to your father and ask the woman to understand as hard as you can.
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@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
2 Feb 11
GoOd PoiNt!! I appreciate your comment! Blessings... Dainy